my boyfriend wants to "do me" and i want that too but i dunno what im doing cuz i just turned sixteen ...how is SEX done?
2006-08-29 10:11:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you sure you are ready for the committment that sex brings? Are you ready to deal with the possible consequences of sex(STD's, Pregnancy, discomfort, depression)? Are you 100% sure they he isn't just using you for the sex?
If you answered no to any of these, then you are not ready to be having sex.
And if you think you are, then go ahead. It's not that hard, he'll probably know how.
Good luck!
2006-08-29 10:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to wait. But if not. Just be totally wasted. That way you have en excuse why you sucked. Or if you wanna be totally "cool" let him stick it in your butt then go down on him after he's done. I could give you a lot of advice it's just rather kinky. Or the best way for you both to have incredible sex even though your so young and inexperienced, is for you both to eat some ecstacy. That's where I developed my sexual skills, I was like you too except i was 17 when i did it. and i was on every drug possible, i was still afraid cos he didn't know i was a virgin, and blah blah blah. Then like 2 years later, i started doing E, and had a bf that did it too so we were ******* all the time. now i'm 24 and my husband sucks in bed. so if you wanna borrow him you might be able to show him a thing or 2.....
2006-08-29 17:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by DnBprincess850 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I've been where you are ok. There is no right way or wrong way to have sex, If your not sure what to do then maybe you should hold off a little bit till you understand more about sex . It's not something to be taken lightly . If your absolutley certain you want to have sex let him dictate until you feel comfortable with what your doing. Experement a little with different things.
2006-08-29 17:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by Hoodrat Hoochie Mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll figure it out, just be sure it's the right guy, it's something you'll remember for ever. I would say watch porn, but that's a bit harsh, not all that stuff happens in every sexual relationship...but just so you can get an idea of what happens. make sure he is gentle and doesn't rush it, it won't feel good till after a few times, and cramping the next day is normal. you'll be fine, it's the "unknown" that scared all of us on our first time. But after you do it a few times and are comfortable with one anothers bodies, you'll love it. USE PROTECTION!!! I don't want to see you on here two months down the road saying you think you're pregnant, but he pulled out before he came...NOT good enough, semen still leaks out during intercourse before he orgasms. Please be smart about this!
2006-08-29 17:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion if you do not know that much about sex then you shouldnt be participating in it. Have you asked yourself if you are really ready? Or if this is a popular boy who makes you feel cool and you would do anything to please him and stay with him?
To me, if you are asking these kinds of questions like how do you "do it" and if your boyfriend wants to "do you" things arnt looking good for sex between the two of you. That is all he wants is to have sex with you. And you do not want to be easy.
2006-08-29 17:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by s..... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if u hav 2 asked u dont no what yur doin a little peece of advice think before u do sumthin u dont wanna end up with your life screwed up before you even turn 18
2006-08-29 17:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your ready trust me youll know but only when you are ready.it will just happen.
2006-08-29 17:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by lmcm1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him do all the work and just lay there and moan loudly
2006-08-29 17:15:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋