Well, my ex-boyfriend left me a voice-mail on my phone the other day, and he told me that he really needed to talk to me. So i called him back and asked him what he wanted, he told me he still had feelings 4 me. somebody give me advice about whether i should take him back and try to make our relationship work, WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO???????????
2006-08-29 10:08:30 · 24 answers · asked by kiki0204 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he is an EX for a reason, think about it
2006-08-29 10:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up in the first place? An ex is an ex for a reason. Time has a way of letting you remember the good things and sweeping the bad under the carpet, but the bad is all still there right under the surface and once you spend some time together it will all come right back out. You WILL have the same problems you had before and do you really want to ride that ride again? Basically going back to an ex is like putting spoiled milk back in the fridge and thinking it will be better next week, the memory of the smell may fade some but as soon as you take it out and open it up the smell suddenly comes rushing back to you and you remember why you put it away in the first place. Better off just getting yourself some new, fresh milk!
2006-08-29 17:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did u guys break up in the first place? Is he coming back to u because ur available and just happen to "be there"? Do u think he wants u back because he loves u or cares about u sooooo much, or is it bologna? A lot of guys I know go back to there ex's because they didnt find better, or they know they can get away with things that they couldnt get away with if they were with other girls, or they are JEALOUS, maybe he heard some stuff, or doesnt want u to find someone b4 he does. Jealousy is NOT love, its evil competition in disguise.Take all this into consideration babe. He' s ur EX for a reason, I say move on, stay friends, but distant, and find some hot new stud, he' s old news!
2006-08-29 17:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by funkygurll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER date an ex again. Thats my rule. If you broke up... you broke up for a reason. Just remind yourself what the reason was. I dont care if he broke up with you... the simple explanation is this...he broke up with you because he didn't think you were right for him...either that or he is sleezy and wanted to screw around. In either case....he chose someone else over you and tossed you to the curb. Make no mistake about it...if he broke up with you... then he DOESN"T care about you like he claims he does. We dont dump people that we really care about....and if we do.... (which is truly rare), then we deserve to suffer the consequence. Don't put yourself through any more issues with this loser. Have a little more respect for yourself.... tell him to F off.... and enjoy your life without him. In the end, your life will be better without him.
2006-08-29 17:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really would depend on what went wrong the first time. You haven't given enough information for me to make a definate decision.
The majority of the time I would say he is an ex for a reason but sometimes their are exceptions.
2006-08-29 17:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you broke up with him did you give him a fair chance and really commit yourself to deciding if you should? If you did this and came to the conclusion to dump him then don't fall back.... If it was a quick reaction then I think you should consider it but don't even dare give him many chances!
2006-08-29 17:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by themicrowavemaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes ur ex and u got into a fight bf u broke up then u shouldnt. but if u just broke up bc u were getting tired of eachother then do. but just think. there r alot of guys in te world that are looking for a girlfriend!
2006-08-29 17:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by angela :D ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We do not know why he left.
I just know that, with me, once it was over it was never the same.
My guess is that he is in between girl friends and you are a fall back. But, I do not know him or you. You will have to make the call. Best wishes!!
2006-08-29 17:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up? if he cheated on you, then he called you because his new sweetie probably cheated on him. To bad for him he had his chance with you and for whatever the reason you are now apart. Keep it that way. tell him goodbye. He had his chance and sounds like he blew it.
2006-08-29 17:14:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah drop him and move on.
time for you to have that 'me' time that you can't have when you got a 'friend'.
do you want pain like this again? or to move along and wait for someone real who is into you and does the things that you do?
there's many fish out there.
cry it out, get mad.. get away get over it.
sooner the better.
no more games... live you life!
2006-08-29 17:12:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
without knowing why you two broke up it is hard to give advice...
but if you want to hear him out then do, you don't have to get back together with him but if you want to satisfy your curiosity then go right ahead
2006-08-29 17:11:16 · answer #11 · answered by loopytoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋