how do you keep it fresh? im going on two years with my bf and we're like an old married couple who never does anything but decide whats for dinner.
2006-08-29 10:06:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i dont just mean SEX, how do you wake up everyday and find NEW things to talk about or goals to accomplish together.
2006-08-29 10:11:01 · update #1
My husband and I are the same :) Try going out to dinner and make it a movie night and cuddle some. Or you can make him dinner, wine, candles , and for desert mmm, well you know, bust out your lingerie and feed him his desert and for sure you'll score for some love making. That'll spice things up. Or you can oder out some food, go to the drive ins and bring some wine and have a romantice movie under the stars. That's what we do to spice it up, I mean we got two toddlers and it's hard to that as it is.
2006-08-29 10:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by blu2u1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my bf felt the same way. i remember my mom always telling me a relationship is like a flower, if you dont water it, it will die. i realised that neither of us were putting any focus on each other. although we loved each other very much, we didnt have that same closeness we once did because we didnt try. so we started up by surprising each other, by making romanitc dates, etc. we also did new things like go fishing together and got involved in each others activities. after a while we were closer than ever. through every step always communicate your feelings to your partner, he may be feeling the same way, and you dont know what he may be considering, like breaking up. get excited about seeing each other. relationships take work, not like what people make it seem.
2006-08-29 18:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by lizmachain7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always try new things with your partner. Try to be more spontaneous. Be romantic. Go out together often. Liven things up in the bedroom (try new positions, buy toys, role play, etc.).
2006-08-29 17:09:39 · answer #3 · answered by Perplexed Music Lover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I make her feel like a Queen she makes me feel like a King
I let her have fun with her sexual partners she in turn brings them to me.
We keep it honest and loving between ourselves.
going on 7 years now
2006-08-29 17:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by Xae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you take it in the can? If you don't then why not? It doesn't hurt if he does it right. (slow w/lots o lube) Give him some road head spontaneously.
Don't kid yourself sister, the KEY to great relationships is great orgasms. Give him what he wants and you will get yours.
2006-08-29 21:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by blinky doodles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new places to go maybe a movie or a night at home just watching tv and talking you and him have to find new things to do
2006-08-29 17:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take small trips around your town and spice up the sex that usually works
2006-08-29 17:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by JSanchez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a date night every week
2006-08-29 17:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by rsuavez66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋