Ok a few years back I dated this guy, everything was going really good. We both knew that we were meant for eachother. Then his mom got sick and he had to move to iowa to take care of her. Well we ended up breaking up because of the distance. I was in school full time so I couldn't go with him. Well now he is back and we've already fooled around again but we haven't really discussed getting back together. Now I still love him with all my heart and from talking to his cousin ( who happens to be my best friend) he still loves me to. How do I approach the subject of us.
2006-08-29 09:57:48 · 16 answers · asked by Hoodrat Hoochie Mama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him do that.
My guess is he will -and soon.
Just enjoy being reunited ...
2006-08-29 10:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again, what is it with all the perves today? This has nothing ta do with you love. Its just like 'perve' is running around today.
Lets see if I can be of any help here...shall we?
Sweetheart this is always rather difficult and others may have lots ta say but its him ya really need to hear it from.
I suggest you sit him aside. Ask him how he feels. Guys don't like to talk about their feelings so use a calm approach. Ask him where you two stand. If you're back together or if he still feels strongly about you.
He may not say what you wanna hear so be prepaired..then again he might say exactly what you wanna hear.
But I always appreciate honesty over the latter. I hate being lied to. I consider it a big time waster.
You might invite him over for a movie. Definately don't approach the subject without being somewhat a private setting. You don't wanna put him on the spot.
Hope this helps some. :)
2006-08-29 10:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by warm_champaign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest guys are not good at starting conversations about feelings. Expect a little distance, feelings coming out scare some guys.
If he really cares he will be OK with the topic once he gets used to the idea of talking feelings and futures.
If he is not what you think don't stick around if you want more out of a relationship tell him. Do you want sex only or more? This is something you have to decide if he only wants sex and you want more don't settle for less life is to short.
If he is not the one meant for you you will know it and this will open up the part of your life that will allow someone in.
2006-08-29 10:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by bonita_cooper2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you two start to fool around...
Just flat out ask him. Don't try to work around the situation. Let him know how you feel and ask him what he feels. If you don't do this soon, this dude will just think you're his booty call and just say he still loves you with all his heart. Don't let him play with you or your heart.
2006-08-29 10:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by â?¥Dancing Queenâ?¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since what you gathered is that he still in love with you, then try contacting him over the phone to chat. Then find opportunity to a date to see if both of you are still "meant for each other". If yes, the story begins.......congratulation.
2006-08-29 10:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by dolphin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were as close as you say you are then you need to just talk to him aske him right out and see whta he says, if her has fooled around with you already then I would be pretty sure that he would want to get back with you, go for it. Good luck
2006-08-29 10:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by JOJO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let things happen naturally. If things are already off to a good start, it shouldnt be long untill things are back to the way they used to be with you two. Good luck.
2006-08-29 10:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he wants to "fool around" would be the perfect time to find out if the relationship can be rekindled. Guys don't mind having their cake and eating it too and if you don't say anything, he may or may not say anything. Just tell him what's on your mind.
2006-08-29 10:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by musicisme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking with him. Take him out to dinner and you will have his attention and just enjoy each others company and talk about the two of you.
2006-08-29 10:02:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that you should talk to him!! Let him know that you still love him and want to be with him!! See if he feels the same!!
2006-08-29 10:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by onesexyg18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just confront him be like hey i know you and me used to be an item and all but i still feel really strongly about us and i wanted to know if we could give it a second chance if your bff is right he should want to give another go at it if not hes just a waste of your time
2006-08-29 10:03:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋