How to make a girl like you.?

Question

I am 13 and the girl i like is also 13. How do I make her like me. What should i do. I am kinda fat but not that much. I weigh about 118 lb. Tell me what to do step by step. Thanks!

Answer 1

Honestly you can't MAKE someone like you. But as long as you're yourself and flirt with her, and if you're nice to her and all that stuff, it might work.

Answer 2

OK Buddy, here's the answer step by step like you asked. This is going to be long so get ready to take notes. First you need to know that you can't raise a girl's interest level unless it is 51% or higher. Interest level is a thermometer that measures a girl's feelings towards you. So when it's 40-49 she may go out with you or give you her number but shell NEVER be in love with you no matter what you do. If it's 51 or higher, you can get it to climb by doing the right things and when it's 90 or above she's in love with you. There are three things girls cannot resist in a guy: Confidence, Self-control and Challenge . THAT'S IT! Every thing else is secondary. If she's says you're too chubby, your hair is too short, you're not athletic enough, those are all only reason # 2,3 and 4. Reason # 1 is always " I have low interest level in you" .If you ever watch James Bond with the ladies, you'll notice THEY are the ones always chasing after him. That's because he's a challenge exhudes confidence and is mostlly calm a collected. What you need to do wiht this girl is first make her laugh. If you're in class together, ask a few goofy, but intelligent questions so you become known as the class clown. Don't go overboard, I don't want you ending up in detention or having to take a note home to your parents. When you're alone with her, same thing. You're like a stand-up comic and she's your audience. You'll learn whith practice what's funny or not, and what your style of humor is. After she's laughed at your jokes on two or three different occasions, you will ask for her HOME phone number. When a girl likes you, she does not care about her parents finding out you're calling her. If she asks why you want it, smile and say "why do you think? If still doesn't want to give it to you, asks for your number instead, or gives you any other number (CELL, beeper,limo, private jet ) chances are she's not into you. If she says " I don't have a home number, but here's my cell phone, she's a keeper for now. You take down her number, Say " Nice talking to you" and politely walk away. Give NO indication as to what your next mover is going to be! That means, don't tell her you'll be calling, or any of that. We want her wondering , and the more she wonders, the higher her interest level in you will get. Let me know if you'ld like me to continue with this elaborate explanation by sendind me a msg. Good luck!

Answer 3

These three things will win any girl over. 1.) have a since of humor, any girl will like a guy that has a great since of humor. 2.) Have confidence,its very attractive. Even if you have certain things that you don't like about yourself, if you show that you don't care then she won't care. 3.) This is most important thing you could do LISTEN, show that your interested in things she likes to talk about. I guarantee you if follow those three steps you can get any girl of your dreams. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Hey noimus13,

Dating is just a way of getting to know one another better. There's no magic spell to make someone like or love you. It's all compatibility and chemistry. You just need to get out and date a bunch of different girls. Movie dates are good, but if you can take them to a restaurant, that usually gives you both a chance to get to know each other better.

Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what to do. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:

http://www.blowmeuptom.com

I hope that this helps.

--Rick

Answer 5

you cant make sumone like you...on the other hand...u can make sumone interested in u. ok same thing. talk to her, let her now that ur interested. when u see her at skool (or anytime) greet her with a hug or sumthin. if she doesn;'t except..she may not be goin for u. its ok. keep on talking to her....if she wants to talk to u ..LISTEN....dont gabber on about how ur pet fell asleep or sumthin..just listen to what she has to say. although...she may not be the talking type so talk about a subject that shes into.....dont know her that well?...welll get to....have sum of ur friends hang out with there friends....all of u go to a movie....i really tried to help u out....best of luck!!/....btw....i am never good around guys so dont feel like ur the only one nervous to talk to the oppisite sex....btw...118..is not fat!

Answer 6

1 start talking to her more 2 smile a lot 3 have good eye contact
4 work with her on homework, schoolwork etc. 5 dont push it to much and be friends first 6 DONT WORRY!!!!

good luck my friend. i was 13 once too and i prolly had no idea some boy liked me.

Answer 7

try to be friends with her and at the right time ask her out
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ask her to go to the movies with u and some friends and let her bring some of her friends so it makes her feel more comfortable

Answer 8

You are love sick. Good for you...it means you're normal!
Be yourself.
You never know...she may like you and be having the same feelings.

Answer 9

b yourself if she doesn't like u find someone else. I know at your age it is difficult but girls like guys who r funny and make them laugh then tell them they r pretty when they laugh. But don't go overboard with it.

Answer 10

You can't make someone like you. She just does. Sorry.