alright. so me and my bf went out for about 3 months. ever since the beginning of school last year, we had a thing for each other. just like the first time i saw him and he saw me, we just felt something u know. and so then finally half way through last year he asked me out. we lasted for most of the summer till august 1st. we were ok over the summer. we didnt get to see or talk to each other that much though. but we were both crazy about each other and im sure we were in love. anyone could have seen that. but he broke up with me and said that he didnt think he would have much time for me and i would get too mad when i didnt talk to him and stuff. i know its my fault and i messed up. but now a month later im still crazy about him, hes all i can think about and im so unhappy without him. he told my one friend the other day that he agreeed w/ her, that his feelings for me could never really be gone. and he said he didnt know what to do but other people tell me that he said it was over.
2006-08-29 09:49:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and im so confused and he knows i still like him and i just want to know how he feels and i would do anything just for a second chance. people tell me i can do bbetter and deserve better and just to move on and i know i should but i cant. hes under a lot of pressure and stress from sports right now and i dont want to put this on him too and make it too much for him or something. butwhat should i do, just try talking to him, and get him to tell me the truth about how he feels and tell him how i feel and just everything? and when should i do it? thanks a lot.
2006-08-29 09:52:28 · update #1
I just love these complicated ridiculously-long, meandering, single-sentence questions that no one can possibly answer! How the hell can we offer any kind of reasonably good response when we have no idea about the situation?
Thank god there is a character limit, or we have to read even more of this pathetic tale.
2006-08-29 09:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
This happens. I am not sure how old you are, but this occurs often in your youth. I had similar break-ups from the time I was in junior high until the time I was in college.
You won't agree with me until you are 30, but it really isn't that big of deal.
You weren't "in love" as much as you think. You're a smart girl; think: why would some guy who is "crazy" over you break up with you because he "didn't have enough time for you?"
If you love someone, you make time for them because that person is a priority. Sweetheart, if he wasn't putting you at the top of his list, he wasn't worthy of you.
FYI, my "soul mate" grew up 287 miles from me and we didn't meet until she was in college.
I am assuming you are in high school. Your chances of finding a permanent relationship in high school are not that great. Most people do not marry their high school sweetheart. I know why: guys at that age just aren't interested in such permanence.
Buck up and move on. It sounds like you have a good, unselfish heart (which puts you ahead of much of the population.) You'll eventually find love, but it probably won't be with this guy,
You'll thank me later.
2006-08-29 10:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by Zack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him see how he is feeling and let him know how you feel about him!! If he wants just to be friends or wants space then you have to respect that!!I know that it will be hard just stay busy and try talking to someone else!! Just make sure you talk to him if you dont then you will never really know if you two could of had something again!!
2006-08-29 09:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by onesexyg18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you and I know you are sad, but he may be right to break it off and allow you time to make new friends and maybe even a new boyfriend.
If he really cares he will come back,but don't hold your breathe it sounds as though he may have a busy year ahead and wants to focus on school and such and allow you time for yourself.
2006-08-29 09:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by bonita_cooper2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loves he, give a chance!
The love can broke planetss, mountains....
Talk with your boy, explain you fears, your errors...
Ask for that he guess, to relationship...
Ask if he and you could forget the passed, and renew the relationship!
If you have more doubts, send a email to me : dennys_cruz@yahoo.com
2006-08-29 10:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by denys ruzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So whats the query? i'm sorry you broke up although if it looks such as you may desire to the two spend it sluggish with the help of your self or discover somebody who can fairly make you happy. good success ;)
2016-12-17 19:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on. You will have several boyfriends in your life, it's part of growing up.
2006-08-29 09:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by Sandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him real jealous wear cute stuff and make sure ur hair is always done... get wit a better guy 2
2006-08-29 09:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by mzmaya14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone....
Set them free.
If they come back to you...
They're yours
If they don't...
They NEVER were.
You will never understand this Love thing...Just go with the flow....
2006-08-29 09:55:50 · answer #9 · answered by conniechung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how u feel. Did u try that one?
2006-08-29 09:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by misskaykai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋