2006-08-29 09:38:46 · 24 answers · asked by calliope 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's better to have been in a relationship so that you can learn from the first mistakes, but you don't necessarily have to be in a relationship to know right from wrong. and sometimes it's better to be by your self for a little while, but don't make it a habit because truly is not just going to knocking you have to go out there and find it
2006-08-29 09:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being alone and waiting is a little better because a lot of times when you're in a relationship, you're not looking anymore for 'the one.' So if you're settling just to learn, you could be missing out on learning with someone really great.
2006-08-29 16:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by Colleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you know who's the one if you never date?
I don't believe in flashes, thunder storming on the skies and pointing at the 'one'. You have to nurture a relationship, that will make love grow, or die. You need to learn and work it.
Now, you must like the person you think you're going out with, not just date him because he was the one who asked you out, or out of mercy, or because he won the lotto (well, maybe the lotto, ... just kidding).
2006-08-29 16:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be alone and happy and wait for the right person to come along. If you are not happy in the relationship, why stay?
2006-08-29 16:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by ninapanama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Gotta Kiss A Lot Of Frogs Before You Find A Prince!
2006-08-29 16:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by GIngin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...i've been thru some relationships that didn't work out and I learned a lot, now i'm with out anyone...basicaly waiting for "the one" and i'm learning things too. So i dunno...i guess it's different for everyone.
2006-08-29 16:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by mountaingirl88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to be learning. Each relationship brings you closer and closer to meeting "the one". How else would you learn about the types of things that you desire and detest in a partner?
2006-08-29 16:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because "the one" hasn't come by yet it doesn't mean you need to be alone. I dont believe in having a committed relationship with someone who is not a candidate for "the one" but I have lots of friends with benefits.
2006-08-29 16:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no "one", except for the ideal that is in your head. I'm not kidding. No one can ever be exactly what you think you want. I think learning is incredibly important, and might be the most important relationship aspect (in addition to love and laughter).
2006-08-29 16:43:08 · answer #9 · answered by GratefulDad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"The one" will not show up until you make a relationship! Just keep looking and meanwhile, learning is a plus!
2006-08-29 16:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by Masoud J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋