why are there some guys out there that would rather "just date"(booty call, if that's what you want to call it) vs make a committment? what is it that you're afraid of? doesn't there come a time in every man's life when it's time to settle down and quit playing games? don't men want to be in love?
2006-08-29 09:30:31 · 10 answers · asked by DaBeautiful1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 25 and date men 32-39, usually. so i have found that older age doesn't always equal commitment
2006-08-29 09:41:37 · update #1
Commitment makes no sense!
We want to bang you first, then we'll decide if we want to hang around.
2006-08-29 09:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I want to and iam a man, but you see this generation of women is so tough. I mean women want to party now until they are thirty and guys the same sometimes. It is very very hard to find someone that wants to make a committment, iam 23 and I have already reached that point. The fact of the matter is you need to find that person and then build a relationship and then committ and thats too much for people. I was over booty calls when I was 18 but what Iam saying is look at both sides of the coin its not just guys, its girls too. I know me personally, I have been hurt so many times I almost dont want to committ but I have settled on it and wont accept anything less. All I can tell you really is its somewhere but dont go falling for guys that seem genuine either because they play the committment card too. As far as your personality question I forgot to answer it but I will show some love and answer it now, I need a woman who can take a joke, has a very good sense of humor, can be there through the ups and downs, that can live with being with someone just ok and not a supermodel and can love me for what iam not who iam.
2006-08-29 09:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by bibby6914 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AGE DOES NOT MATTER...! But, the...
Girlfriend Material: Fun, Loving, Responsible, Understanding, Mature, Can Handle Life on Her Own. We would be there just to see her be happy about life and to comfort HER, and maybe give her the child she wants, we MUST also posses the same qualities SHE has.
Booty Call: "Fun", "Loving", has a nice looking trunk, is irresponsible, a Drama-Queen, Immature, has issues beyond repair, is incomprehensible, spends all her time and money at the mall, is super-lazy....Definitely a Booty Call.
2006-08-29 09:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jr Thompson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guys for me i look for a nice girl who can keep a good conversation going i mean yeah i got for looks too but id rather have someone i can talk to everynight and so on instead of a hot girl who cant keep a conversation to me any girl is girlfriend material they just need to find the guy that fits them and other way around some guys are so used to dating a girl and just banging her that its a habit they cant kill other reason is some guys want to be tough and act like they cant fall in love and stuff like but later on life theyll find love i hope this answered ur question
2006-08-29 09:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to find a sweet girl with a nice body, someone maybe 18 to 24. and if she was hot and was really into me i would do anything for her. i could get some random sex and that is good sometimes but i would rather have a steady, with a nice sweet body and i would make her my queen. as long as she treated me good in return.
2006-08-29 09:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by cob_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the same things you look for ... playful, ability to understand me and read my moods, be able to be peaceful and hang and not be demanding ... and for me, a good passionate "cu*mmer" ... and I've found a great one.
Nowadays, guys won't want to "settle down" as you say, until they are near 30. If that's what you want, date older guys.
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2006-08-29 09:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice personality and really smart and sum1 who is really nice and respects me as much as i respect her
2006-08-29 09:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by jenson c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would much rather have commitment
2006-08-29 09:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by Justin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty face, nice legs, sweet, intelligent
2006-08-29 09:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by cirdellin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love the question! you go girl!
2006-08-29 09:34:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋