If you were in an relationship, and your boyfriend doesn't spend any time with you. And he always complaining and saying that he has other things to do, and he dosesn't call you or nothing anything, you have to call him all the time. And plus half of the time he , doesn't answer the phone. And you have gave him chance after chance. What would you do?
2006-08-29 09:29:46 · 27 answers · asked by cslangel_89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him go soon enough he'll realize that's he's lost such a great person but in the mean time don't wait for him to see that cause who knows who long that'll take. You have to know that you tried to give the relationship a shot, that you gave him chance after chance therefore it's not on you but on him for not wanting to be in a relationship. If it's the single life he wants (because that's what it sounds like) as hard as it may be let him and find someone who will love and appreciate all you have to give. Good luck gurly!
2006-08-29 09:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mia A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say no matter what he is doing it is not going to hurt him to pick up the phone for a second to let you know what he is doing or just to call to say hi!! Maybe he wants some space but does not know how to tell you!! I say htat you should just stop calling and soon enough he will call you!! If not then move on there is someone out there that will treat you better and will call you!!
2006-08-29 16:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by onesexyg18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly he's probably trying to give you a clue... Let me be frank and to the point. Get rid of him and the headach of the situation. He may realise he goofed and will want you back. In that situation think it over, let him know why and ask him why he was ignoring you so much. Tell him you want the TRUTH. If he doesn't want you back then it was worth it in the end to dump him, because he may have other "agendas" going on.
2006-08-29 16:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't put up with that, and he doesn't change, seriously dump him.
A guy that is always complaining, never calling, etc doesn't seem like a guy that cares about you. There are plenty of other guys out there that will feel LUCKY to be even around you! Find that guy and stick with him, because not all guys are like these.
2006-08-29 16:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by themicrowavemaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what he has to do. My gf complains about the same, but i have to work and we live one hour from each other. Maybe he has a reason why he cant spend time...and besides, how much time do you want to spend with him?
2006-08-29 16:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no relationship there. What I see is a woman desperately hanging into something that doesnt exist. Move on and get a real one. That guy is just coward enough to tell you that ur relationship had already ended.
2006-08-29 16:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of the book called, "He's just not that into you?" I think you've got a classic case on your hands.
Time to move on. You are spending way too much time chasing him and he's not giving you the time of day.
2006-08-29 16:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by Colleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all of that was happening, I would let him know how you feel and tell him that if things don't change then it's over. If nothing changes, then it would tell me that he doesn't care enough to save the relationship, and at that point I'd break up with him.
Good luck though :)
2006-08-29 16:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a relationship like this. i really liked him. well, loved him. and he never complained, but, he never really did anything. i said, he just needs time, when he`s ready, it`ll work out. and it never did. i gave him time, chance after chance after chance. nothing. break up with him before he does.
2006-08-29 16:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by Beca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this but I think that it's about time you and your boyfriend called it quits, because apparently he has already broken up with you, he just haven't put into words, but have have said it in so many words.
2006-08-29 16:35:36 · answer #10 · answered by Teneka L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋