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hell no man if a guy cant respect a girl than he will end up with noone to be with forever

2006-08-29 09:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by jenson c 1 · 2 1

YES. I believe that sexual compatibility is an important part of any relationship, including marriage. I would want to find out before I spend the rest of my life with someone if we share the same sexual passions and interests. It can help a marriage last (without ending up in having an affair and/or divorce).

2006-08-29 16:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hi emma,

If you wanted to save it for marriage, I would respect that. However, I don't happen to want a sexless relationship. I would have to look elsewhere for a girl friend. Marrying virgins is not high on my priority list. Guys need sex and I would feel that I would need to go elsewhere for a relationship that was more full featured.

If your guy wanted to stay a virgin though, that sounds like the perfect relationship for you. Good luck.

--Rick

2006-08-29 16:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0 0

ok honestly, since you requested it, and well since I'm an honest guy. My girlfriend and I actually went through that. Everybody has that question come up eventually in their relationship. I wanted to get it out of the way. And well she said that she wasn't ready and wouldn't be until later in her life. She thought I really wanted it so she said that she wanted to wait until she was at least 14 or 15. But well later on when I told her that I'm not going to get angry nor break up with her, that I just want the honest truth, she admitted that she just wanted to wait till marriage, for her sake of feeling she might get hurt, and also because she values her virginity. But well she was completely relieved to find out that I'm the kind of guy that wouldn't have sex before marriage, because I would rather save my virginity for the one I want to be with. And well I know it's going to be her. So well I also didn't want her to break up with me, so I told her that if she ever changed her mind, I wouldn't say no if she really wanted to have sex. Because well my girlfriend is going through the normal stage all girls go through, where she wants to have sex one day, and the next day she really isn't ready. So well I'd rather us wait till marriage, and I talked it out with her and she agreed with me, and also agreed that if she changed her mind she would let me know, and no matter what my answer is, she'll respect it and be happy. So well I was happy to hear that. She knows that I would love to get intimate with her in that sort of way, because I love her, but she also knows that I respect her decision and our decision to just wait.

But well even if it was another girl, I still wouldn't break up with that girl, because I don't want a girl's first time or second time, or whatever number it is, to be a horrible one. I'd rather it be done with us both being willing.

So honestly hopefully you are with a guy that will value your choice and not pressure you into it. I mean girls want sex just as much as guys. But well guys like it better since we are agressive and controling, and still feel we are superior, even though we all know girls are more mature and smarter.

2006-08-29 16:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 0 0

No, my gf said that i waited her, till she got tired of waiting :)
I think girls cant stand a guy not wanting him so she made some signals and i did my job. After 4 times doing it, she says she wont do that again till marriage, no problem for me...lets see how much can she wait now XD

2006-08-29 16:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0 0

I don't know - that is a tough one. If she was a really specail girl, I would try to do it, but I've never made it past the second date without getting laid. If I was going to try to date somebody without sex, it would be really difficult not to cheat.

2006-08-29 16:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by fireman4u 3 · 0 0

Depends on whether I was dating her because I liked her or if I was dating her because I was looking for sex.

2006-08-29 16:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0 0

The guys have to respect the decision of girls because every are humans, have desires and need to be understood!

2006-08-29 16:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by denys ruzzy 2 · 0 1

YES! DTB (dump that *****) Would you buy a car before you test drove it ? Would you buy a suit before you tried it on?

2006-08-29 16:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by Brite Tiger 6 · 1 0

i wouldnt ask her to have sex before marriage

2006-08-29 16:31:26 · answer #10 · answered by Justin 4 · 0 0

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