Why do girls always make the wrong decision btwn the Perfect Guy vs the Love of Your Life?

Question

Why is it that girls always reject the good guy because he is too into you, and go instead for the ******* that treats us like crap and we swear he is the love of our life?

Answer 1

Most girls always go for the bad guy image. What you learn as you grow older is that you can have this person and a great guy all rolled into one. You have to learn to be picky and not settle.

Answer 2

1. Bimbos are usually extremely insecure because they only want sex. It's true. I like an intelligent girl who's down to earth. 2. Same with party girls. I can understand going to parties and having fun. I can't understand getting completely wasted and making out with a ton of people. I'd go to parties, but I'd know the limits. Usually, party girls don't. 3. That's a personal thing. Guys like different things. I like thinner girls, but if you have a good personality, looks don't matter. Really. 4. My biggest pet peeve is when they try to play their little mind games instead of being straight forward, and then getting mad at guys for not getting it. Us men are literal creatures, which means if women are more straightforward, it will make everything a lot better. That's a promise. 5. Depends on guys. Real men like women who aren't insecure and who have a good personality. Others only look for girls who will let those guys sleep with them. 6. Honestly, just do it somewhat privately, in person, and with courage. If the guy likes you back, that seals the deal. 7. As calm as we may sound, if your friends are talking bad about us, just to make us look bad, we really hate that. Especially when we did nothing wrong. Your feelings are important, but we don't want to be put in a situation where your friends will hate us no matter what. 8. It's not true. Some men do, but those are the ones I warn people to stay away from. 9. I like a girl who isn't insecure, but not bitter. I like an intelligent individual who looks somewhat good, but can make even a boring time entertaining. 10. I don't know, the last girl I met like that got stolen from me, so whatever. I guess I'm still waiting.

Answer 3

To many women, confidence and power can be strong attractors. The problem is that a person who acts like a jerk can SEEM powerful and confident, when in fact they have neither but are just hiding their insecurities by striking first at everyone around them.

If it makes you feel better, even though women are stupidly taken in by it, there are just as many men who will stupidly adopt that kind of attitude just to attract women. So maybe all the stupid people end up together. Yay?

Answer 4

this doesn't always happen, but sometimes it is easier to chance someone who is running away than to stand and meet someone who is really interested in you. Take things slowly, and don't show all of your cards. It is possible to meet someone equally in real romantic love and affection, but sometimes it takes a crisis or two for people to see tehir feelings clearly and gain appreciation for what they have.

Answer 5

because we dont think long term and some of us like a challenge or a 'project' that we think we can fix......

Im in this predicament and im taking it slowly again with Perfect Guy to see if it'll work 2nd time round.....

seems to be so far - plus the sex is good !!

Answer 6

Good girls want to be bad

Answer 7

we are all fools in love? i dont know! if we weren't meant to make mistakes, they wouldn't have invented white-out or the morning after pill.......

Answer 8

that's because we don't think about the future just for the moment

Answer 9

Because we're stupid.