Why is it that you always gripe about getting a nice guy and you get one and treat him like crap?
Walk all over him, take attitude and possibly cheat on said gentleman.
Why do you prefer to be with jerks?
Whats so great about a guy that treats you like dirt and ruins
your credit?
Please someone make some sense out of this for me.
2006-08-29 09:09:01 · 16 answers · asked by DeaconFrost 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This question will remain on many nice guys' minds because it happens so fricking often. I think its partially the guys fault to be honest. I'm a nice guy, and the girls that have attempted to walk all over me... were obviously the type to do so. I learned to recognize which types of gals are more likely to do it, and how to avoid them. The reason women (only a small portion of all women) walk all over nice guys is the same reason men (a slightly larger portion) walk all over girls and use them for sex. They are narcisstic, and believe the world revolves around them. These women target nice guys.... because they know these guys will provide what they want. Some nice guys will take the "punishment" and will stick with the gal .... I dont know why... but I've seen it far too often. Haven't you seen a nice gal afll for that jerk...and stay with him even though he treats her like crap? There are guys out there just like them.
Here is my advice dude.... learn what to look out for. Bottom line is this... stay away from the "daddy's girls". This means they have been given far more than they have ever had to earn. This means they will expect you to give everything to them...and they wont have to work much in life.
Stay away from the abusive/power hungry broads. I didn't think I would ever have an abusive girlfriend... or one that was so concerned with having power over me.... but I did. I ended it quick. Just because I'm a nice guy doesn't mean I wont put your a*ss out on the street in the middle of the night during a rainstorm. If you abuse my generosity..... you're done.
Good Luck
2006-08-29 09:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are like that. You just got a bad seed. Just think of it this way at least your credit isn't ruined by this woman lol. Move on find someone that is going to love the nice guy about you.
2006-08-29 16:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women do this because those of us who are called good guys don't go out to meet people i guess what i am saying is that if they want to find a good guy they r not going to do it in a bar so when they are in the bar they just find some cute drunk guy i think women need to be more open about talking to a guy at like the laundry mat or a grocery store i say these places because you and tell allot about a person just buy seeing what is in there basket
2006-08-29 16:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, not all girls are like that. The ones that are like that are either sl*uts, b*tches, or are just so afraid of something real they do stupid things and push a good guy away.
As far as myself, I prefer to date nice guys that will treat me right rather than waste my time with losers who will only end up hurting me.
2006-08-29 16:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well most of us want a nice guy that wont hurt us and that will help us in life but some weird pple out there just want one so that they can cheat on them with a bad boy. those s are called $luts, that part of nature hopefully will soon be gone and then the normal pple can get on with their lives with out being bugged by the desperate and deceiving
2006-08-29 16:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by poetryslame200 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well some women like drama and that's how you get it. They dont appreciate a good man. Second they are not ready to settle down so they pick the rong guys and once they are ready the will look for the right guy. SORRY!!!!!!
2006-08-29 16:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by laverodepancho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are the nice guys? All I see are jerks that are only interested in getting a supermodel and sex.
2006-08-29 16:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by marian m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a question for the ages..........some gals do treat their nice men with decency and respect......others take them for granted, thinking they'll always be there.....WISE UP GALS
2006-08-29 16:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to find the right woman.
2006-08-29 16:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by dollfacedbaby1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone single girl is like that i guess you just haven't found the one that will treat you good no matter what.
2006-08-29 16:17:18 · answer #10 · answered by kaitlyn t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋