my boyfriend whos 18 has gone to college all the way across the country. im 17 and still havta finish hs. should i wait? im going to the same college he is when im done with hs and hes promised to marry me and evrything once we re done. what should i do?
2006-08-29 08:49:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we dont go to the same school, im head over heals in love with him, i met him just two months ago, and he gave me a ring and evrything.
2006-08-29 08:57:22 · update #1
If you love him, then you should be willing to wait for him. It's only one year, compared to the rest of your life that is NOTHING. If he still wants to be together and you know he's serious then you all you have to do is decide to wait. You guys can talk on the phone everynight. My boyfriend is away at college and I'm still in high school also. We talk on the phone throughout the day. He comes back sometimes and all the time on holidays. We've been together for about 2 years now. There you go, proof that it can happen. If you think it's worth it, and if you love him then it should be worth it, do it. Do it. Wait for him.
2006-08-29 09:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by iamsamsamiam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is any absolute right answer to that question. The main thing is you have to do what is right for you and the future you want. Do you really want to try and survive your senior year basically as a loner? Sure you will have girl friends but think of all the events that wil occur that you will be the only person going to without a date. Do you really believe that with all he is experiencing in college that he won't fall for some girl there and end up changing his mind? What if you go all year without him, putting your life on hold for him, and then you move and go to school where he is at and find out he wasn't being true to you? These are the things you need to think about to figure out what is the right thing for you to do.
2006-08-29 16:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest w/yourself. he is on a college campus with literally 100's of women. of course he wants to be true to u, but he has never set foot on a college campus with women everywhere. Yea, it's hard thinking about what he's doing but he feels like a free man up there. no matter how much he loves u, can he say NO to those women when you're back home? how would you feel if the situation was reversed...??? could u handle it if u were in college? how well do u know him? hmm.
2006-08-29 15:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by dolphinman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the smar thing would do is brreak it off for now. He's in college let him enjoy hsi one year to figure out what he wnts and you will be going to college and meeting many othe rugys and trusst me maybe you will end up together but let time decide. In the mean time enjoy your self and let him enjoy himself. Things will work o ut if you let destiny take its toll. In the mean time if you both explore and come back to each other more chances of no rgerets and it being ever lasting. THIS IS FROM FIRST HAND EXPEREIENCE.
2006-08-29 15:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by Confused4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no
highschool sweethearts
please don't go to the same school
always ends up bad.
follow yourself and your own ambitions
your young so the world is yours (corny but true)
2006-08-29 15:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by BOOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should live life single. their is a hole world out here that you are missing, most people who commit to soon, are not happy later in life. trust this.
2006-08-29 15:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can answer this but you. what does your heart tell you to do? all i can say is that you're young, and if you think that this is it, then wait, but if you are even thinking about someone else or have your eye on someone else, then you probably need to move on. good luck!!
2006-08-29 15:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by trisha_r_c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to not worry about him and worry about getting into college before you make any life changing decisions.
2006-08-29 15:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by Kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES! for both questions!
2006-08-29 15:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask that q a year from now
2006-08-29 15:59:42 · answer #10 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋