Here is my situation..I have been chillin with this chick for awhile and we get along great. She has a great personality and we like many of the same things. Now the problem is I just found out from her sister that she has been taking birth control pills so that she could sell herself on the streets. She does not know that her sister told me this but I'm tempted just to drop everything and just run. Should I atleast confront her to find out if this is true or just walk?
2006-08-29 08:43:33 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah ma man, why by the cow when the milk is free! Bang on!!
2006-08-29 08:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by hfacto 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I'm pretty sure that if you two are just "talking" then she will tell you that it's none of your business given that you confront her about it. Don't just burst out and blurt it all out. Try a more subtle approach. Ask her how does she make her money. And I mean job wise (keep your mind out of the gutter). See how she responds and what she responds with. If you sense hesitancy, then confess that you don't believe her and have heard otherwise. Being open and honest is the key, but don't present her "secret" in a judgmental or condemning way. If she comes clean, try to find out the reason why she's taken such an occupation and help her get through it. If she continues to deny it, then tell her you two should cool it until she decides to tell you the truth. Hope this helps!!!
2006-08-29 15:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by swilkes8305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get behind the truth. You might just listen to the sister and too late find out that she was lying to you. Be careful that the sister is not after you and therefor trying to destroy your relationship. Try finding out the truth by some other way rather than confronting her. If your information is wrong and you confront her it will do your relationship irreparable damage.
Good luck.
2006-08-29 15:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely talk to her. You dont know for sure that her sister is telling the truth, although its possible that the girl could lie to you. (keep in mind that when someone is telling you a lie, they will tend to look down and to the right.) Anyway, she deserves a chance, and if she is doing it, maybe you could help her get some help. If she admits it, try to find out why she thinks she needs to do that to earn money and tell her how hazardous it is to her health. She will probably get infected with every STD in existence. If you really care about her it is your responsibility to try to help her until she proves to be beyond help.
2006-08-29 15:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by ♥love2havefun♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is true, you have leave her in the dust. Who knows where she's been, especially if it's with a different guy (or girl) every night. You're going to have to confront her or research this yourself. Becareful, her sister may just be trying to scare you off.
2006-08-29 15:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by Ty_Webb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The choice is yours. If you are sleeping with her, you need to know if she's selling her body. Because this puts you in a high risk group for HIV/STDs. I would ask her and if she says No and you still feel uncomfortable walk away before you invest any more time.
2006-08-29 15:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just walk away. If you really like her you should find out if it is true or not. Her sister is probably talking shiet behind her back. Maybe her sister is just craving for attention. I say bang her sister for being the feisty li'l girl she is. bang them both actually
2006-08-30 18:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to her and ask her if all that is true because you never kno if its just a lie her sister told you to break you guys up. but if its tru then i suggest you leave her cuz that is just wrong of her to do something like dat to you without even telling you about it. if you decide to stay with her be careful because you never kno if she has something and you can catch it if you dont use protection. good luck!
2006-08-29 15:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by la_reina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run,unless you are into STDs .She will become a walking petri dish for whatever is out there.If she doesn't have the "no glove no love"philosophy she will not be healthy long.
2006-08-29 15:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by Tom S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her as a friend its not right that you know and don't do nothing about it. yea she is taking birth fontrol pills but what about HIV AND THE OTHER THING SHE CAN GET?
2006-08-29 15:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by Ely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋