When a sex life needs spicing up, it's left up to the guy cause he's not pleasing the woman...why is it always the guys fault?
2006-08-29 08:43:32 · 9 answers · asked by blue suede shooz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is actually the woman's fault for not expressing her feelings and not knowing what to do about it besides blaming you... unless she has talked to you about it and you have not paid attention to her needs. Send her some sexual positions while she is at work, gives her something naughty to think about... ivillage has a ton. Take her somewhere romantic to warm her up, make it a day all about her, do everything SHE wants to do, all day long, run a her bath water, cook or order in, make sure the house is clean, massage, pay attention and do not be selfish AT ALL remember when women get what they want we are more willing and excited to please you in every way possible.
2006-08-29 08:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by can j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not always the mans fault. Personally I get tired of all the generalizations on here. Just because the women that you choose to date are like that, doesn't mean that all of us women fall into the same category. I, myself am a take charge kind of women and I have no problem bringing my own spice.
2006-08-29 08:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do my fair share of spicing in the bedroom I'm not a dude
2006-08-29 08:47:14 · answer #3 · answered by chelsetoots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think thats always true. Some women just need a little push and wouldn't you like telling your GF what you really want. You might be surprised and get it.
2006-08-29 08:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hon, I dont feel that way at all. When having sex you both start together and you both betta put in work.
2006-08-29 08:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not, I spice up my love life
2006-08-29 08:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cuz guys build themselves up to be the matcho men who take care of the women and when help is needed, they are expected to fix it.
2006-08-29 08:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by LuLu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men are more easily pleased.
2006-08-29 08:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys dont know what they're doing.
2006-08-29 08:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by doe ray me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋