2006-08-29 08:42:00 · 8 answers · asked by X 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We all know that attractive girls get lots and lots of attention. Now, imagine you were approached by dozens of attractive women every day. How would you choose? You can't ask them to list their qualities because they could lie. What most guys think of as games are just a girl's way of getting to know your 'true' characteristics without asking directly. The smart ones will test you, because they've figured out that if asked directly, a lot of us aren't completely honest. If you think of it this way, you might find some of their games useful.
Basically you're asking the wrong questions. You need to ask yourself, how can I play their games better than they can. When they figure out you understand what they are doing and can do it better then them, they'll stop.
2006-08-29 09:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by unprdctble_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello H,
Actually, women don't usually play as many games as girls do. If you don't really like it, then stop playing with girls and start looking for older women. Also, there is always a little bit of game playing between people, but if you try to be open and honest, they will usually do the same.
Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what to do. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps.
--Rick
2006-08-29 15:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont play games until I'm forced to by the stupid games men play. Everything bad in a relationship starts with the guy. As soon as you guys realize this and fix it the sooner we call all be happier.
2006-08-29 15:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
La Rochefoucauld said in his Maxims that the tendency of women to flirt is inhererent, and the only cure is when one falls in love.
A woman who's not in love will tease and flirt and play games even if she's so old she looks ridiculous doing it.
2006-08-29 15:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They can't play without a willing participant. Walk away. Game over. You won.
2006-08-29 15:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by georgia b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men play them first.
2006-08-29 15:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by doe ray me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them what they want, we play games to get you to like us, actaully show your feeling, we will let our gaurd down.
2006-08-29 15:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by can j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you stop we will too.
2006-08-29 15:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by Ely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋