how frustrating is this? especially if you like the person
2006-08-29 08:30:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely.
I fancied this girl for about 2 years. I was too nervous to even talk to her she was that cute. Then one day we got talking purely by accident, one thing led to another and we began dating. I was convinced she was the one for me. After a few dates the time came for us to spend the night together...and thats when it all fell apart.
It was terrible. I mean, I can't explain how rubbish this sex was. She did absolutely nothing for me...it just "didn't click" ya know? It was bloody awful!
So the next day I was pretty disappointed with life, but decided that I liked this girl and I really wanted it to work. So we continued to date...we had sex a dozen times, but it just didn't get any better.
In the end I just had to finish it. I didn't tell her the truth though because I didn't want to hurt her feelings.
So my answer is simple - yes its frustrating, but if you don't click in bed its unlikely that your relationship will work out, no matter how much you like the person. Keep trying though if you think its worth it, I've had sexual partners that have improved with time...for most people its just a "practice" thing :)
2006-08-29 08:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by gromitski 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. a guy referred to as me a **** in intense college, while i grew to become right into a virgin who had under no circumstances even french kissed a guy, because of the fact I cherished to tell grimy jokes. you won't be in a position to stay your existence by using how others will decide you, because of the fact somebody will decide you badly no count what you do, like call you frigid or a prude in case you do not have intercourse. do basically what you sense is ideal. i've got had some under organic love sexual studies (ok, one night stands) and that they have been kinda gross and yucky, yet that grew to become into years and years in the past, and that i'm married now, and no-one cares. They have been discovering studies.
2016-11-06 01:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yes....very frustrating and disappointing. But sometimes, after having a second go, it's worked out. A few times, it was soooo bad that I didn't even consider doing it again, so very carefully and sensitively broke it off with the person.
2006-08-29 09:36:24 · answer #3 · answered by snowfoxx71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..I went with a male nurse and he looked real fit he was a honey !! in the sack it was like shopping!! a lot of pushing and shoving and i came out with very little, He even had the cheek to ask if i had enjoyed it,so he was told apart from my **** being on wet bit that was as wet as i was getting so i pissed off home to my faith full rabbit!!
2006-08-29 13:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by hazilbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup! - Only to find out that she's "Interesting" (Read - Loves tearing your back to shreds with the excuse of passion - nails down the back is one thing - but trying to flay the skin off - that doesnt do anything for me - sorry!)
2006-08-29 13:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by want_to_explore_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was the person who had the person that did'nt do it for me. But I don't like to hurt people's feelings too bad, so I faked it until it just ended.
2006-08-29 08:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes a few times..... very frustrating it was!!!!! one was just crap and only boithered in himself and the other was a virgin... one bf just wasnt listening to what i was saying and wanted so that got frustrating.. lol...
2006-08-29 09:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by meow22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Yeah, been there. Dishy gorgeous fireman, great to be with, but sex was just nothing, such a disappointment!!!!!!
2006-08-29 08:33:12 · answer #8 · answered by sarkyastic31 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes my ex. She was so bad in bed. She laid there like a dead fish. I like to have fun. I like to hold my women up and bang her against the wall. I like to bend her over the couch. I like to do it on the washer and dryer. Things like that.
2006-08-29 08:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by Husker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!! Was such a disappointment. Great build-up and chemistry, but when it came down to it...left me saying..."that's the best you can do?"
2006-08-29 08:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋