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My bf has been going to the strip club behind my back, and I'm sick of it, I have several reasons for not wanting him to go, (see my last question) but he keeps going.
I know he goes on his lunch break, so I am planning on getting hired to be a dancer at the club he goes to, and then on a day I know he'll be there, BAM! I come out.
Problem solved right.
He can't possibly be mad at me, right?

2006-08-29 08:20:47 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

PS I was a dancer about a year before I met him. (3 yrs ago)
I look the same.

2006-08-29 08:28:58 · update #1

36 answers

The look on his face will be priceless. Well worth it and it could, perhaps, bring your relationship to the place where he aparently wants it to be.

Or maybe he's just a horny dirtbag.

2006-08-29 10:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by Rob 1 · 1 0

Yes and no. What is your solution? It will probably give him a reality check - but what if he wants to break up? You have to be ready either way, because depending on the guy, it could go either way. Just remember. if you listen to someone else, and things go BAD, you will be kickng your own butt for a long time. (Speaking from experience! BUT I understand wanting justification and/or a general idea of peoples opinion that don't know you both and WILL tell you their HONEST opinion) Just understand that whatever you do, it's because YOU decided to do it and you can accept the consequenses no matter what.
Someone said that he needs to be "a man sometimes"... I agree he needs "friend time", but TRUTH is MOST important (next to being FAITHFUL). I believe THAT is the real core of this issue. Trust-honesty-faithfulness. Besides, "being a man" doesn't have to include strip clubs.

2006-08-29 09:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by sad75 1 · 1 0

Even the most loving Bf needs some MAN time. Beer, wings, Some friends, a big screen, and some G strings is a good time!! Keep him on a leash, but let him play in the yard once in a while.......

I had a High school friend who married a girl who who literally followed him everywhere! Broke up after 5 months, And he was not doing anything.......... She just hated his friends and hobbies.

Having a BF who like to contribute to the stripper college fund is not a total bad thing. He could be doing a lot worse at lunch.

2006-08-29 08:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by lana_sands 7 · 0 1

You will get the message across alright! You may even loose him. Think about it; he's at the club with his boys or co-workers and BAM his woman is on stage stripping....

Your man want's to see a stripper...strip for him in the privacy of your own home. If he continues to go to the club on his lunch you could go to the strip club, give him a lap dance, and have him make a decision

2006-08-29 08:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by Natural_Woman 4 · 0 1

He is totally going to ditch your butt. First, he will be caught, which he already is. Next, he is going to be pissed that you are stripping. Guys want to shag strippers not be with them in a realtionship long term. Are there no other jobs for women where you are? I understand that stripping is not a bad profession and helps many many women out. I just know that if you were my girl I would be gone and would just toss a dollar at you next time I saw you dancing.

2006-08-29 08:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by curious caucasian 3 · 0 0

Unless you are a Ho! that's stupid.

You are going to lower yourself, and become a stripper, so that your white trash "boyfriend" will learn a lesson ?

Either decide that you don't care if he goes to a strip club. Or, decide that it matters to you and break up with him.

I have nothing against dancers, but I would hate to see you become a dancer, because you can't control a guy.

2006-08-29 08:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by Badspe11er 3 · 0 1

As you can see by the answers, all the guys are like " yeah! baby do it!!" Boys...one track mind really.
Honey, why would you demean and humiliate yourself for him? Not worth it really... if you're going to strip, do it for you!
Not for someone that goes behind your back to check out naked girls!
How bout you tell him, you'll go with him next time, that's what I do with my man ;)

2006-08-29 08:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by Jmyooooh 4 · 0 0

That's way cool. Ya gota do it.

But getting hired at the strip club might be harder than you think. Maybe let the owner know and he will let you do it. Plan it out!

2006-08-29 08:24:46 · answer #8 · answered by Hathor 4 · 0 0

Wow, ur going to go to all that trouble when all you have to do is say I don't trust you its over. Think about it are you going to get a job at every strip club he goes to.

2006-08-29 08:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by DVSKITTEN 3 · 1 0

Awesome idea in theory unless it backfires and he either a.) breaks up with you or b.) likes the idea of you stripping or thinks that you are cool with it...watch out he doesn't find a way to justify it all and throw it in your face....

2006-08-29 08:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 1 0

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