A boy likes me a lot, a little too much, but I only like him as a friend right now. He is so far from my type and we don't have a lot in common. I like this other boy, but don't know if he likes me. But, we have everything in common and is very much my type. Currently, we are just talking and ask eachother a lot of questions about each other to get to know eachother. But, I don't know if I want to give up on the first boy and try with the guy I like or stick to the guy that I know likes me.
2006-08-29 08:18:54 · 18 answers · asked by MG4Ca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you don't like the first guy don't settle for him. you won't be happy and that's really not fair to him. just try with the second guy and if it doesn't work find someone new
2006-08-29 08:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you only like the first boy as a friend, it would be obvious to go for the second guy since you're more attracted to him and have more in common. As for the first boy, there's no point in hanging on to something that will never be. Unless you really like having the first guy as a friend, you should make this clear to him that the two of you are friends and will always be friends only.
2006-08-29 08:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the first boy is your "back up" plan. this is never a good thing. You know in your heart he's not a good match for you as a bf. Take a chance on the new guy. If it doesnt work out...the first guy is STILL not going to be right for you, so you find another who IS. There is no point in keeping him around just so you wont be alone! hope that helps!
2006-08-29 08:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by Joeygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't settle. That's what you'd be doing if you choose the guy who likes you, but you don't feel the same about him. Plus, that wouldn't be fair to him. He'd be expecting things you'd not want to do, like attention or a little affection (hugs, kisses, stuff like that). If you're already talking to the guy you're interested in, that's half the battle-keep going. You have nothing to lose at this point. If it doesn't work out with the boy you like, it only means the one for you is on his way. Don't second guess yourself. You're handling yourself alot better than you give yourself credit for. Anyone who does not agree with you, does not have your best interests at heart. Haters. Go Girl! Handle Your Business! Good Luck!
2006-08-29 08:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by dct1218 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look sweetie, I am an older woman and regret not taking chances in my life. I've suffered lots and have been divorced. I say this to you like a daughter. If you like a boy you have to be impetuous and tell him. Don't be afraid of what he might think of you. And this other boy that you dont like just stay friends with him. Go to the one you like and tell him what your heart feels. Even if he won't accept you, at least you took that chance and did what your heart told you to do and that is something you will never forget or regret. And when you get older you will be happy that you did. Good luck
2006-08-29 08:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by candchotel18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never just stick with a guy just to have a guy. That's really not fair to him or to you really. You should go for it with the guy that you like. And hey, if that doesn't work out I'm sure another guy that's your type will come along, especially with school starting up again.
2006-08-29 08:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look that same thing hhappened to me once and i was pretty much like the first guy don't go out with him if u don't really like you'll only hurt is feelings and the other boy will only keep away from you!
2006-08-29 08:27:02 · answer #7 · answered by Blood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this might sound bad but see if the boy u like will want to be more than friends and if he doesnt then jus stick with the boy that likes you.
2006-08-29 08:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, let's start from the boy who likes you. i kin of have the same exact problem as you do, buti got my advice from a really good friend. here it is
" i think you should tell the person who likes you, nicely, that you only want to be friends, for now, but you are soooo sweet!"
and then for the guy you like, dont try to get him to like you, because if he's really interested, he will go to you!!! trust me, i have the same exact problem with a guy that i like, collin r. , but if you really love him, like i love him, you will let him go!
2006-08-29 08:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by love2shoeshop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hasn’t this question been asked and answered like 500 times already? Why do we have to endure reading these repetitive recycled moronic questions
2006-08-29 08:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋