2006-08-29 08:18:26 · 10 answers · asked by just_deal_with_it_ok 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, i am not fat...I am about 5'5 and 130pounds.. I have light brown hair that is past my shoulders..All my friends say that i am pretty and have a good personality..my ex even said it shouldnt be hard for me to find someone. but i cant..
2006-08-29 08:42:43 · update #1
Are you happy? I've found that when I'm happy, guys seem to really like me, but if I'm miserable they all keep their distance.
2006-08-29 08:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by Cina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello just_deal_with_it_ok,
I have no way of knowing you personally, but just the basics of looks is what attracts guys. So (and I'm only guessing here) I would guess that loosing weight, growing your hair longer, wear a little make-up and more revealing clothes, might do the trick.
Also there is an attitude that tells guys that you will be receptive to their advances. Usually just a smile and some eye contact is all that it takes. A guy isn't going to ask a girl out that looks like she'll tear his head off or treat him badly. Maybe you are giving off that vibe.
What do your girl friends tell you? Do they tell you, "Oh baby, you're just too hot, and the guys are just intimidated by your beauty." Or, maybe they've been trying to get you into a beauty parlor or gym for the past few months.
Good luck.
--Rick
2006-08-29 15:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to admit, all these "great answers" are valid. You didn't give us any details so you could be just as "absent" when it comes to attraction to the opposite sex.
Do you have a personality?
Why don't you add some details to your question so that you can get some intelligent feedback instead of insults and ****.
2006-08-29 15:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sometime it just takes time ive been in that situation before when i thought that id never find someone and i found someone try to be friendly and more relaxed around guys be yourself dont change anything about yourself cause if you do and a guy likes you then hes not really liking you and my saying is its whats on the inside that matters not on the outside.i hope ive helped you in someway.
2006-08-29 15:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by angel b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A confident woman always attracts, there is however a difference between confident and self centered or cocky. Believe in yourself, love yourself and you will be loved. It exudes attractive energy.
2006-08-29 15:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you big and fat? Are you haneously ugly? Does your breath stink? Maybe you have toe jam.
2006-08-29 15:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered approaching them?
2006-08-29 15:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by xt_oo_tx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear tighter clothes
2006-08-29 15:21:11 · answer #8 · answered by B Rad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what you look like, and are you outgoing and go to parties? if not, that is why./
2006-08-29 15:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by thinkGREEN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you so I can't say
2006-08-29 15:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋