I have been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months now. But recently, things haven't been the same, and the love had faded. He even ignores me, and he says he is 'so in love with me' but every time he tries to talk to me he has a mental block. He promised this would stop but it didn't, but i talked to him again and he said tomorrow he will definitely be ok this time. I told him if he isn't then i can't go on. I don't really feel the same anymore, but should i give him a chance or not?I went out with this guy a few years ago but we were both quite immature, but we've both matured alot since and he's a great friend. He's been amazing through it all, but has told me he still loves me, and i feel it would work now. He also said he will support whatever decision i make about my boyfriend. I've always loved him, but even if i split from my boyfriend i don't think it would be a good idea to date so quickly?What do you think??
2006-08-29 07:57:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah even if you break up with your current bf it wouldnt be a good idea to get with someone so quick. if you are at the limit that you cant stand your current bf then i guess it is best for you and him to split. or maybe suggest a break between you two. maybe you and him only needs some time alone.
2006-08-29 08:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by swtcocoa231 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of it like the two of you were married and having a rough spot..
What would you do? ..
Usually one person has to break the routine and do something fun and spontaneous.. That will open the communication gates once again and talk can once again begin . Then you can talk about what is happening and where the two of you are at in the relationship.
Key here is to keep your life fresh, always. Not just in sexual matters either, but how you deal with life and what brings out the best and worst and knowing the difference .
2006-08-29 08:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're thinking about seeing another guy then you don't love your "boyfriend". Frankly I don't even see how you can consider him a boyfriend since you have absolutely no communication between the two of you. Doesn't sound like you've matured much to me.
2006-08-29 08:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen leave the "boyfriend" he has in more ways than one told you he is not feeling you. Move on. The other guy. Give it a shot who says you have to wait. You dont have to date him feel it out.
Just know what you are looking for.
2006-08-29 08:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by sandiiiiii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everytime we try to replace a bad relationship, it turns out that it's not a better one, or that he wasn't the answer.
I would date a totally new guy, not someone I already know from before.
You need to explore new grounds, but don't do anything extreme...
2006-08-29 08:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by adel e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that the relationship is over already. After that it's up to you, but I think if you choose to give the ex a chance you should take it slow.
2006-08-29 08:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should recognize that you are already being a ho! talking to your ex (and what not). Blame yourself, and move on. Stop looking at your current BF as an excuse !
My guess: you and your ex have hit it already, and you are just trying to cover your bases !!!
2006-08-29 08:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by Badspe11er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hardly urgent.
If you aren't interested and he can't talk to you, then the relationship is already over.
Do whatever you want, but be prepared for the consequences.
2006-08-29 08:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 03:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's ok with whatever decision you make?
not fighting to stay with you?
you're decision is made for you, he made it.
time to move on babe.
hes lost interest.
2006-08-29 08:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by digital genius 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋