okay, my stupid friend chris && all his friends are always callin me fat or chunky...I used to think it was funny && everything but now its startin to hurt my feelins. Ive told them that && most of them have quit except for chris. I dont understand why he does it, we used to be really great friends but now we arent...but I just need some ego busters...please && thanks
&& somethin for you to know, Im definitally not fat, Im only 5'0 && like 100 lbs, maybe smaller! so yeah.
2006-08-29 07:55:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Guys can be so immature!!! He probably really likes you and just doesn't know how to tell you. Tell him to grow up and tell him that he is hurting your feelngs, and real friends don't do that!!! Take a good long look in the mirror. If you like what you see than that's all that really matters. Love yourself and "pooh" an everyone elso.
2006-08-29 08:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by F-1 says KISS IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, Karlie, you are God's creation and you were made in His image. So if people say things to you that hurt your feelings, just forgive them and keep going. You need people who are going to encourage you and not put you down. If your friend does not stop after you've already him how it makes you feel, then you must move on and surround yourself with friends who will love you unconditionally. And another thing, being 5'0 and 100lbs is not fat at all. I'm 5'1 and am 30lbs. heavier than you and I don't think I'm fat. I am trying to loose extra lbs. but you're definitely not fat at all. Stay healthy and that is most important.
2006-08-29 15:03:27 · answer #2 · answered by Wasabel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot of good advise on here already--I just wanted to say that some people like Chris just needs attention, even if it is negative attention.
Don't let this one person get you down. Move on if you have to and remain confident and secure.
2006-08-29 15:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by pittsburgh-girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, a lot of guys, especially pre-teens and teenage boys will pick on a girl as a way to flirt with her. They probably think that you are cute but don't know how to say it. Consider it a compliment.
2006-08-29 14:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt hang out with this chirs guy if u teases u about this.....and yr right 100 lbs weighin 5'0 is nothin at all...so my advice......stop being friends with him if u've told him repeadely that what he says hurts...if he cant except who u are and the stuff u say then hes not truly a good friend......trust me...you'll find friends out there who apprieciate who u really are
2006-08-29 15:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by SJ9867 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think me and you should start ignoring chris in keyboarding!
haha. but really
karla me and you both know your not fat, chris is retarded and everyone knows that. i'm suprised he learned the english language.
anywhos, i hope you feel better dearest. i'm sitting beside you right now if you need me ^.^
<3
2006-08-29 15:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by Princess Skullface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start ignoring him. You should tell him exactly how you feel, that you feel like its not funny or anything. Tell him that again, and sound like you really mean it. If that doesnt work. Just dont try to be friends with him again. Who knows he might like you....
2006-08-29 15:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by It's my life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell chris that it really hurts your feelings, and if he stops then he is a good friend but if he dosnt, dont be friends with him, hes not even a real friend then.
⥠lina â¥
2006-08-29 15:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by watermel0nbabii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a mean streak. Avoid him. If you trade insults with him, you will be stooping to his level. Tell him off and tell him that you no longer consider him a friend. Period.
2006-08-29 14:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell Chris that you'll stop being his friend/hanging out with him unless he stops.
Or just stop being his friend and hanging out with him.
2006-08-29 14:58:32 · answer #10 · answered by theturbolemming 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋