the man has been married + divorced + had 2 children. the girl, however, lives with her parents. does this sound a bit suspicious? he admits the girl is "not much to look at" so it's not like it's sex appeal
2006-08-29 07:53:55 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tight cooter?
2006-08-29 07:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by moolie_wfo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It relies upon completely upon the guy. there is not any individual feeling that all 40 2 year old men may have about a 27 year old lady. some will go after a youthful lady because of as midlife disaster. some men will be searching for a lady they imagine they could contreol. Others will sense not something more effective than paternal emotions for a youthful lady. nevertheless others will basically be searching for that youthful "eye sweet." finally, some may have authentic loving emotions in route of her. that's a huge age huge difference. some couples may have a wholesome relationship, some can't.
2016-10-15 22:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just the fact that he has got someone younger and probably feels this is all he can get ,a nieave 17 year old who hasnt lived enough to now better .and as he has been married and has a child he ,he is either a child in himself in his mind or seems to get on better with younger people ,as it seems men take a lot longer than ladys to grow up ,not in all cases,but in most ,and as for the young girl she probably feels more grown up being with a older man,but hasnt yet learnt its not going to be a bed of roses ,as people still seem to look down on this kind of age gape ,more so when the female is the younger,most teenagers are out with their friends and boy hunting,so id say this girl may have some deep set problems ,maybe she wasnt one of the gang at school,or was bullied,it could be a number of reasons,but if this man is sound ,and means her no harm,i personally wouldnt let my 17 year old daughter be seen with a 29 year old man,id make her wait till she was 18,then if she still felt the same there wouldnt be much i could do,and as for the girl being fat that shouldnt even come into it ,weight makes no point at all ,she may have a very adult ,careing nature,this could be what the man likes in her .but if shes set on him and he means her no harm ,good luck to them ,who knows it may work ,stranger things in life have happened ,and as long as shes in no danger i wouldnt worry too much ,just be there for her if it all goes wrong.
2006-08-29 08:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask that question, than, why do people fall in love at all? I understand there is a huge age difference but, love does not have color(even though people think it's red, but, it's not), and it does not have age, love is just love, it's pure, so, most people do nto agree with that because of the age but, if both parties understadn each other, and they do not care about it, and can work it out, than who are we to judge, I mean, I don't have to live with that decision, you don't have to, why should we worry about it. In one more year, she'll be 18 anyhow and there's nothing we can do even if we want to. So, as long as they are happy, let it be.
2006-08-29 08:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once men reach this fragile age they tend to feel as if they are old men and that if no one has wanted him yet then no one will want him. He is afraid that he will end up alone and will give anyone a chance that gives him a second look. If you are the 17 year old girl I would suggest not dated this man. You two are just in two different places in life at the moment.
2006-08-29 07:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of men like the control thing. They "brainwash" them quite easily. At 17, she could still lose that baby fat, so to speak.
Sounds a little suspicious to me too.
2006-08-29 07:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by shewolf 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You see, this "fat, 17 yr old girl" most likely has very low self-esteem. This makes her very vulnerable on an emotional level. Emotional vulnerability can also mean sexual vulnerability. Basicall, this chick is willing to bang a myriad of men if it makes her feel good about herself. Do you actually wonder why the man is going for her? He can be in complete control, and he's getting some as often as he wants it, duh!
2006-08-29 07:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by The Answer 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know.. I know this girl, she around my age (20) and keeps dating these older men (like in their 30s and 40s).. she's bigger ( okay, A LOT bigger) and not exactly pretty, and really immature for her age, so I think it is strange that older guys are going after her (or the other way around)
Maybe he likes the power he has over her, or likes that he is able to manipulate her, or maybe he's having a hard time finding someone his age who he's attracted to, and that's the best he can do?? Who knows... maybe they're "in love" lol
2006-08-29 07:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He really shouldn't, the age differance is a bit much. Maybe he can wait until she is 21. But by that time, he may no longer be interested in her. So only time will tell. Just my opinion, it isn't much.
2006-08-29 08:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is about control. He will have her doing his bidding 24/7. She probably has low self esteem, which helps him to have even more control over her. He can be assured that she won't likely cheat on him, or leave him. It is a sad, sad situation, but it is what it is. He can push her around, and she will let him.
2006-08-29 08:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by ShineOnYouCrazyDiamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she still has a c_nt, right? So basically, this guy is taking advantage of this girl's naivette, who has probably never dated nor have been kissed romantically. I think he's just going for the easy lay without having to spend any more money. i betch he's unattractive too.
2006-08-29 07:59:03 · answer #11 · answered by G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋