i have been with him 4 a month and i just don't know how to dump him because i still want to be friends with him and it would be weird if we hated each other because i am friends with his brother to so i would see him alot so please help me(;
2006-08-29 07:45:42 · 5 answers · asked by emma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up with him like you would want to be broken up with. Gently and honestly
2006-08-29 07:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he's a wonderful friend but that you're just not sure you're romantically interested in him. ask to be friends and if he or you can't handle it, then you'll know for sure you weren't meant to be a couple and that you're too immature to be too deeply involved with one person on that level (please don't take this as an insult, there's nothing wrong with being at that stage of your life). you need to know more about yourself and that usually only comes with time and a lot of lessons learned.
and don't start going out with someone else real soon. then he'll think you were cheating, there's something wrong with him, or that he's a loser. and never, NEVER date his brother (or at least give it a few YEARS and only if you all have remained friends).
2006-08-29 07:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by buffysummers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There probably isn't an easy way. But, since you've only been together for a month, it might not be too bad.
2006-08-29 07:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get real drunk somenight and have a threesome with both of them - that way he wont want to be bf/gf with some skanky ho but he'll at least keep you as a booty call
2006-08-29 07:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him your feelings but there is no easy way
2006-08-29 07:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by guy in love 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋