im in a serious relationship that i dont want to loose, would it be ok to cheat with an ex if it was a one time fling just for old times sake? no one would know about it.
2006-08-29 07:43:08 · 10 answers · asked by xbox d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel that if you want a fling then you should be a decent human being and tell the person that you're with. I don't think a fling with an ex would be a good idea. This is really a stupid question and even makes me wanna slap you silly.
Are there any good, intelligent guys in the world?
2006-08-29 07:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by warm_champaign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever is done in the dark will always come to light, If you are in a serious relationship why would you want to chance losing it. How would you feel if the tables were turned and he just wanted to have a fling with his ex. No one would ever know.
2006-08-29 07:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by lovebnjenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! NO! NO! It is not okay to cheat at all! Believe me, I have been cheated on. You WILL get caught! My fiancee cheated on me with his ex-wife. His excuse was that they had a child together. So what! You need to figure out what you want. Do you want the relationship that you are in now, or do you want a good piece of a** every now and then. You cant have your cake and eat it too.
2006-08-29 08:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by carmatic410 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are seriously looking to us for permission? Cmon' honey, you aren't that stupid. Why not ask your girlfriend the same question and get her opinion? Your ex is an ex for a reason, there is no "old times sake" crap. As for nobody finding out? That, my dear is another load of crap. If you had to ask us, there a good chance your conscience is going to eat you alive. Turn the ex down, you'll be glad you did.
2006-08-29 07:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just how would it feel that someone did that to you.
The point is not whether they will find out or not, is whether you care enough about your partner to respect.
If you feel your ex is worth it then brake up with your significant other and take the chance without feeling guilty later on. Karma exist and what goes around comes around, you may not believe it but do it and later in life you will get it.
Good Luck. PLAYER
2006-08-29 07:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how good are you at hiding your guilt? you haven't done it yet but are already worried about it. what you have to think about are the consequences if your lover now finds out. is it worth loosing them over a one time fling? i guaranty you he/she will not understand. and what if your ex holds it over your head by making threats to tell - how would you handle that?
2006-08-29 07:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by handyman5218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no..you're being selfish. If you love the one you're with you cheating shouldn't even be an option. You need to get over the feelings you have for your ex.
2006-08-29 07:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by Big Thinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from someone who got cheated on for an "ex". **** NO, whether it is once or 100 times.
2006-08-29 08:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean no one would know about it???? There are 2 that will. Ex's have away of letting everyone know. They are ex's for a reason! My answer is NO! NO WAY, Shape or form!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-29 07:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you want to do
2006-08-29 07:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋