i need help!!! OK my parents are going to get divorce and me and my man have problem.what should i do?

Answer 1

Reading your question, I would say that you have to learn to communicate more clearly. You don't identify whether you and your "man" are having problems because of your parents divorce or what it is you need help with.

Talk to your parents. If you think they're making a mistake, it's a good idea to write down some good memories you have of good times and remind them that they've always been able to deal with problems before. If they still move toward a divorce, try not to pick sides and let them both know you don't want to be caught in the middle.

Talk to your man. Communicating your concerns clearly (writing down what you want to say before you talk really helps) and doing it at a time when you aren't arguing is the best thing to do.

Good luck