I got a rejection from a guy I emailed online on a dating site. He rejected me because I don't have a college degree and don't make a certain amount of money. He has a Phd and so on. Ok, it might be argued that I would be too stupid for him to date , but at the same time, he is open to meeting a moslem or hindu, etc as he indicates in his section about religion. He lists himself as christian. It seems strange that he couldn't be compatible with me because of education but he would consider dating a moslem woman? I have known alot of Moslems and I know that their culture is completely different than ours, especially when it comes to dating and marriage. Doesn't he realize that he isn't compatible with that type of person? He is a middle age professional white man. I think religous compatibility is more important than educational compatibility. Two diverse cultures just breeds problems. I know this from experience.
2006-08-29 07:17:33 · 11 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was married to a person of a different culture and he didn't want to celebrate Christmas, Thanksgiving, or anything and many arguments were brought on by me cooking some "forbiden food" in the wrong pan or doing something we as Americans do normally.
2006-08-29 07:19:32 · update #1
You're quite right that religion can make a big difference; on the other hand, maybe all he's saying is that he's willing to meet any woman without ruling her out because of her religion. He can deal with the religious issues later, if the relationship develops. You probably think that if he's openminded about religion he ought to be openminded about education, right? But he's obviously a person who values education (and success) highly and there's not much you can do about it.
2006-08-30 00:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by AnOrdinaryGuy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 01:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you went throught that. But you shouldn't feel too offended. He just want to find someone at his level and be happy. At least he was being honest with you. But cheer up, there's many guys out there who's looking for a girl like you and doesn't give a sH** about whether or not you have a degree. You should go for a guy who likes you for who you are.
2006-08-29 07:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he really cares about either; education or religion. What he is really interested in is money!! You are so lucky you didn't get involved with him!! Sounds like he wrote what he thought would attract career women (money). Be careful with internet dating a lot of the people lie about everything! Good Luck!!
2006-08-29 07:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is looking for long term marriage then I would guess he is concerned about getting hosed in a divorce proceedings. The financial disparity between incomes could put him in a hell of a spousal support situation depending on how much you make.
2006-08-29 07:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be offended. Be happy you werent strung along. He either wants you or he doesnt. You will make a guy feel the same way, Im sure, without even knowing it.
2006-08-29 07:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes no sense at all
That guy's a jerk
Welcome to the world, where reality rears its ugly head
2006-08-29 07:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by Ayumi 23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his religion isn't all that important to him. Ever think of that? Hooking up with someone that isn't as intelligent and schooled as him was obviously more important to him, so get over it and let it go.
2006-08-29 07:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he's scared of getting a gold digger? Anyway it's not worth your time there's someone out there who will accept you for you so screw him
2006-08-29 07:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is way to much of an *** to date anyway... much nicer guys out there that aren't so fussy... who gives a **** about either religion of job...if your connected, your connected.
2006-08-29 07:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋