me and my first and only girlfriend of almost a year , in love and even planing on getting married one day, had a lil problem , a guy told her that he had feelings for her , then she said she is confused and that she might ahve feelings for him , then she said that loves me ...we worked it all out , but she seems alot different , lot calmer , less excited ....she seems either hrt or just thinking constantly .....she said she dont ahve feelings for anybody but me..i believ her , so whats wrong with her !??
2006-08-29 07:16:26 · 6 answers · asked by help!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can tell she is not cheating , so she is not
2006-08-29 07:25:18 · update #1
she is not a very discussing person , she keeps lots of stuff inside , i understand that , also ..i love her , i show her all my love and i am way too attached to walk away
2006-08-29 07:39:17 · update #2
she is cheating
2006-08-29 07:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by gary_george48 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you believed her you won't be on this board. She is thinking that perhaps she may have made a mistake. It's 'the grass is greener' syndrome. You always think the one you did not pick could be the better one.
Can you take that? If its going to make you insecure leave her. Your significant other should make you feel good about yourself. Do not give anyone that power over you because anyone who doesn't see ypur worth does not deserve your love.
Talk to her about your feelings. If she doesn't acknowledge them walk away.
2006-08-29 07:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by lipvixen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont bring this up again, if you are comfortable with what you had to say to her then let that be the end of it for you, If she has more to say then she will say it in her own good time, if you push the subject then she will make a hasty decision. Good luck.
2006-08-29 09:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...i dont know what to say......it doesnt mean that she loves him
but the is she is confused . she have feelings for u untill now
she is thinking of the other guy and doesnt know how she feels about him. u must discuss it with her if she still loves u..if she did just 4get about the other and have fun with her say nice and do nobel things 4 her....coz she loves u let her have all ur love.
2006-08-29 07:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by Rasty 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey, that junk is hard for anybody, especially a girl
Give time to sort herself out; if she loves you, she'll forget the other dude
2006-08-29 07:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by Ayumi 23 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give her some time to overcome what is going on through her life.
2006-08-29 07:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by .Forever Young. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋