my boyfriend hasnt called me like he used to and i feel like hes avoiding me cause he wont type back on myspace and he said he would call me monday but didnt and last week he only called me monday and friday i think theres something wrong but i dont wanna ask cause thats rude but im so worried about him and i really dont wanna loose him so what do i do cause i cant call him.
2006-08-29 07:13:37 · 14 answers · asked by angel b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let it go for a week and if he hasn't typed you back or hasn't contacted you then type him and tell him its over. That is the only thing I can come up with, Good luck.
2006-08-29 09:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking a question is not rude. You have every right to want to know what the heck is going on with him. He is acting strange and different and the only way for you to find out, is to ask what his problem is. You need to talk to him. I don't understand why you can't call him. Send him an email, write a later, text him. Tell him that you don't understand why he's avoiding you and if you've done something wrong, can he at least talk to you or tell you what the problem is. If you send him a message on myspace and he doesn't answer, send him another, and another and another. He can't ignore you forever. Don't feel like you're being desperate, but you do have a right to know why he is acting funny. If you get tired of him not answering, leave him alone for a while. Maybe he's going through something he doesn't want to talk to you about. But if he still takes too long to come around to talking to you, move on. He doesn't have to be immature about the situation by just not answering you or at least telling you whats wrong.
2006-08-29 14:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry but that is not rude, u have a right 2 know what is goin on. sounds like he is playing games & i would have already moved on. if u guys cant communicate any better than what u r, then u dont have much 2 go on. sorry, hate 2 burst ur bubble here, but u need 2 tell him u r tired of being treated like this & unless he talks 2 u, u r done. i mean really u say u dont want 2 lose him, what exactlyi s it that u think u r losing. some guy that lies 2 u & says he will do something & then doesnt!!! come on now, lets get real. the ball is in ur court. dump him & move on. there r som many out there that will treat u right.
2006-08-29 14:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by ladydi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah he's gone....you think pickin up the phone and dial a number and be on the phone for the most 5 minutes is a hard job???why he has to say I'll call you on Monday it's not like lunchin a project just a simple call
why you're worried??? if some1 loves you no matter what he can communicate at the very least on the phone...he's busy somewhere...don't wanna hurt you but my hunch he's seein some1...what you need to do is just keep on low profile...DO NOT call him, DO NOT text him, DO NOT drop any kindda message then see what's gonna happen...no1 exactly can tell you what hes up to...if you really care about him and you don't wanna loose him take a day off and follow him or just be patient and pay less attention he'll be fixed up if he loves you...
and one more thing don't say i don't wanna loose him if he wanna get lost you wouldn be able to do something about it...
good luck and don't panic
2006-08-29 14:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by CherOkeeGurL 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say that you play hard ball the same way he is to you. Instead of getting all worked up over this and writing him on myspace and all that stuff, just quit contacting him. Make it seem as if you are as fine without him as he is without you. You will get some kind of answer, whether it be jealousy or maybe he will just finally call it quits. There is no reason to be distant unless he really doesnt like being around you and talking to you all the time. Just play it off like its any other day and see what he has to say then.
2006-08-29 14:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by c_69_2004 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your his girlfriend then there should be no reason why you can't call him. Just ask him what is going on, it might not have anything to do with you. Don't worry about being rude cause there are two of you in the relationship and you both needed to be getting something out of it.
2006-08-29 14:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by queenbee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow. Relationships are hard for everyone. You need to talk to him, because, even though it seems rude, that is the key to a successful relationshhip. Ive learned over time that if you dont communicate your feelings, the relationship will eventually turn sour. And another thing. Talk to him, but dont call himand message him all the time. That makes you look weak and sprung. If he sees that he will either get tired of you and leave, or take advantage of it. Show that you are just as strong as he is, and that if he wants it to be like that, you are capable of moving on. Good Luck
2006-08-29 14:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by Skittles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are this worried it is not rude to ask him... My ex used to do the same thing when he had something on his mind, its always best to communicate, if he cares he won't want you worrying about it. It could be something or nothing. He may be busy, it may not have occured to him that he's coming across as distant, or like I said he may have something on his mind and need some space. Either way try to speak to him. Hope it all works out.
2006-08-29 14:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
be up front and honest with him, if you're in a relationship with this dude then you should be able to know why he isn't calling you and letting you know what is going on. How would he feel if you were doing this to him? You deserve the respect to know what is going on with your man. It's not rude to ask why he's avoiding you, that's just protecting your feelings. Girl ask him what is up
2006-08-29 14:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by 1/2 pint 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In no way that is rude. Address the situation because relationships only work when you are honest with each other.
2006-08-29 14:18:43 · answer #10 · answered by Steven B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋