Im currently a single 24 year old male and i work with a girl who is very attractive and likes me as well, but she is only 17 and she is turning 18 in december of this year. She acts mature and she's intelligent. But i can't help but feel a lil off about it.
What is your input?
2006-08-29 07:02:13 · 17 answers · asked by DeaconFrost 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOOOOOOOOOOOO you are not to old!!!!!!!! more girls wish they were able to go out with the older guys because lower generations guys are SOOOOOO immature!! Please date her asap, and make her happy. I swear, 89% of girls here where i live would wish there were more older guys like you willing to go out with us!!
2006-08-29 07:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have never been a believer that age matters, but then again if u are already feeling something weird about it, who knows whats really going through ur head. It maybe just that its something new, she is young outgoing and very intelligent as you have put it. But if it is something that u truly feel, dont hold back. and with her only being 17 just about to turn 18 an older man is always something that a girl looks for cause he has his crap straight, ya know what i mean? i just hope all works out for u goodluck and i hope that i helped u out :)
2006-08-29 14:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by ME :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first are you willing to have a relationship with someone at your work? You know, people change too from 17-24. Heck i'm 22 now, and I acted totally different when I was 17, or at least had a different state of mind. But if you think it's a good idea, then it's ok, as long as you are ok with working with her if you guys ever break up.
2006-08-29 14:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until she's 18 honey. If your feeling put off about it, it's your conscience trying to lead you in the right direction. We all know right from wrong and this is going to raise a few eyebrows. Once she's of age, then ask her out, you'll be glad you did. All these feelings you have now of uncertainty won't be there.
2006-08-29 14:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i dont really think age is such a big deal as people put it to be..if she is mature enough for u then go for it, plus if she is turning eighteen soon i guess you have nothin to loose. Its all about the state of mind of a person. Hope it all works out!
2006-08-29 17:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by rasta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it age is just a number but dont expect her to be complete grown up all the time I sure she still has a few childish things to grow out of!
2006-08-29 14:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by dreamgirl4myboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until December to pursue anything. It would be your best bet. Just hang out, NOTHING else. If you think you can't hold back when you're with her, then don't see her until she's legal.
2006-08-29 14:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by n. s. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u feel like you really have feelings for her then go for it i'm 19 and my boyfriend of 9 months is 25 (although i am thinking about breaking up with him, but that's because he has some pretty bad anger managment problems)
2006-08-29 14:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Don't date anyone under 18, and don't date anyone that's not within 4 years of your age.
2006-08-29 14:08:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're OK if you wait until she's 18; maybe a friendly date or two until then, at most.
2006-08-29 14:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait! please for the love of God, wait! Age and "maturity" doesn't mean everything is a -OK. Just give it a little time and see if she is all that. But for goodness sake don't pursue anything before Dec.
2006-08-29 14:10:49 · answer #11 · answered by decababe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋