im so used to anger and hate from all the years it was given to me, that whenever someone is kind or expresses loves i get uncomfortable.
2006-08-29 06:48:27 · 3 answers · asked by maguathehearteater 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
All you have to do is start being kind to those around you and you will start becoming accustomed to it.In time it will be second nature to you.
2006-08-29 06:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by porkupuss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very difficult to understand and believe that not everyone is bad when that is all you are used to. I understand. I have been abused throughout my life by people who i have trusted and have now met a person who treats me good ansd i find this very hard to accept. All i can say is bite your tounge explain to this person that you are not used to kind behaviour and tell them you find it difficult and that they need to be patient with you otherwise they will find it difficult to accept your mistrust and mood swings. Also find a counsellor or therapist if you can that you trust and talk through your past issues with them this will help you to get rid of your pent up emotions and uncomfortableness.Sorry i can't be of more help as i know how frustrating this is.
2006-08-29 14:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by angelle_76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just conditioned that way. You are not used to it. Get away from the people who treated you like that. You are a good person. They didn't have the right to do that to you. When you start hanging around normal people you'll get used to accepting their kindness, I promise. Like everything else it just takes getting used to. Also it's NOT normal to direct anger and hate at ANYONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU are a VICTEM!!!
2006-08-29 19:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋