i dont mean to sound big headed or anything, but i'm pretty. (i get hit on a lot by other guys) my bf is not the best looking person, but continues to make me feel as if im not good enough. most you would probably say dump him, but its not the easy. i left everything i ever had for him (family and friends) i dont regret any of that (due to my own reasons), but i sacrificed a lot. i try my best to do anything i can to satisfy him, but its never good enough. he tells me i nag a lot-i wouldnt nag if he just stopped lying. any advice?
2006-08-29 06:39:50 · 13 answers · asked by soul.searcher 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys are dumb...maybe because he knows you love him and he knows that it will be hard for you to leave him...I think I could only hope that he realizes what he has before its too late...
2006-08-29 06:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by narfanator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just like me. You have to hear compliments. The reason you feel plain and boring is that you are competing against hollywood. No one can win. Guys will always turn their heads away from the most pretty girl to see an average girl. It is because that average Girl is different. Guys get bored with the same woman. They need fresh meat lol. Only a few men out their that will stay loyal and appreciate modesty. Besides the guys that go for the sluts will leave them sluts for another one. Find a decent guy. Keep doing what you do. Thats what I do. :) home this helps
2016-03-27 00:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if your bf is lying why would you keep him? Your definately in an unstable relationship. Maybe you shouldn't have left your parents or family for him? Since by the way he's only your boyfriend and not your fiance or husband. Try to erase your insecurity and become more independent and then there you will be able to make better decisions.
2006-08-29 06:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea if he is lying and then won't talk about it when you confront him, there is a problem. You gotta think long and hard then make a choice on whether to stay with him or not.
2006-08-29 06:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by hawksfan17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the problem is that you dont want to accept that he is not good enough for you.....
If he lies and dont appreciate you, you better are alone than with someone who does not realize how much you care for him.
2006-08-29 06:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by Carlos A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you are just another dumb woman who has no self-esteem or self-respect and will endure a life of abuse and mis-treatment at the hands of azzholes like this guy.
2006-08-29 06:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im say dump if if he can accetp you 4 you then leve him his lot good enough 4 u
2006-08-29 06:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would notice it. Maybe he does too, but just doesn't say so. Not all guys are the same.
2006-08-29 06:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres the advise TALK TO HIM!!! we never hear anything if u dont say anything.
2006-08-29 06:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by John k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You give too much, you have to think of yourself once in awhile. If it's too easy no one appreciates what they are given.
2006-08-29 06:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by doktordbel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋