is it possiable that we have become more then that and he has failed to inform me? He calls me everyday, We see each other at least 2 to three times a week. I spent the night a few days ago and he wanted to go have a few drinks with his friends I didn't want to go so I stayed at his place and although he has his own car which is much nicer then mines he took my car? Is it possiable that the relationship has become more and he just hasn't told me?
2006-08-29 06:12:49 · 24 answers · asked by Sasha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And if so why is he afraid to say that?
2006-08-29 06:13:45 · update #1
You have to make your feelings known. People tend to ask others the questions that they should ask their own companion! The worst case scenario is that he doesn't want to be serious with you at this time. Yes, it may hurt but, we've all been hurt or disappointed at some time in our lives. I believe that you would rather not waste your time. Think of it this way, if you were mad at him, you wouldn't hesitate to speak your mind. Wouldn't it make sense to let him know how you feel before you get to that point? If you give too much of your life to a person who's not on the same page as you, you're setting yourself up to be hurt even more in the long run. Peace.
2006-08-30 16:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by willno74 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's the actual thing about saying "COMMITMENT" My man and i started our relationship like that,we had both came out of a bad relationship,and we started talking and ya know..and we both said NO RELATIONSHIP for one he was older than me and two I was recently divorced single mother..blah blah..but anyway as the months went by we talked everyday,saw each other as much as possible and then now what we are still together and happily married..I guess to me it's all about what you really want with each other...can you look at him and not want to see anybody but him? I think you two should sit down and have a casual conversation bout where this "thing"/Fling is going...and if you need something more then I would try my best to break away now before you get in any deeper...Good Luck Hon.
2006-08-29 06:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by crazyinlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I trust various human beings asserting that yea there's a extensive age hollow yet this could be a guy that is going to strip golf equipment many times. sounds like a keeper. and that i might on no account ever date a guy that previous. There are adult men available who're 19-25 who're way nicer and sweeter and don't circulate to strip golf equipment. no longer attempting to make it easier to comprehend what to do, basically asserting that if it became me i could be finding on the reality that this guy comprises a strip club many times and he desires to have a dating with a 19 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous that works at a strip club. sounds like he basically needs intercourse.
2016-09-30 03:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by wichern 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's most probably afraid to say it as he's frightend of what it would mean. Even though it is a relationship if things start going south he thinks he can just step away from it. However as I found out as I'm just like him but a bit thicker. When you step back it really hurts big time. Sit him down and talk to him about it he could be me. What car does he drive?
2006-08-30 11:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. I think he likes the situation just like it is. After all there is no real commitment involved. The fact that he took your car is because he wanted to go out and have his fun and have you waiting there for whenever he decided to come back. You have to really take an objective look at your situation and evaluate it realistically. Don't let your vision be blurred by what you are wishing for. In my opinion if he truly want to move forward he would commit and be positive in letting you know. Be careful with this less you can become hurt and have no one to blame but yourself.
2006-08-29 06:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by Robere 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi! Maybe he really is scared to say up front that the relationship is escalating into something more. You know how we ladies are; we analyze situations and are usually the first ones to communicate to our partners sudden changes. Maybe you should take the lead in telling him how you feel about the relationship. You may be letting a load off of his shoulders :)
2006-08-29 06:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
friends with benefits is a limited agreement between 2 people. If it has been more than 3- 6 months then it has well evolved into a relationship.
2006-08-30 08:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by misstrell504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your relationship has grown alot. You two have been getting really close latley. He is just scared to say something about whats going on because he does not want anything to go bad. As long as you two are happy and love each other nothing should be said just keep moving forward.
2006-08-29 06:18:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just going to have to ask him. Or let fate take you where it wants you to go. Either way, the only person who can answer this is him. So, don't be afraid to find out what the deal is and really decide what you want to get out of this too.
2006-08-29 06:19:18 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are either of you seeing other people? if not it's possible that the relationship has evolved and he hasn't mentioned it because he may assume you know or feel the same. from what you put it sure sounds like you're in a relationship but you should sit him down and ask him what he thinks
2006-08-29 06:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋