I am in a long distance relationship and we are really happy. We talk all the time, texts, emails and see eachother everyother weekend. Because of certain circumstances we are unable to move near eachother at this moment but plans are in the making. My question is.. Does anybody in a LDR ever miss the person so much that it actually hurts inside, and if so what do you do to get through those times. I find my self getting really moody and upset.
2006-08-29 06:04:36 · 11 answers · asked by jam_psb 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, I am currently in a long distance relationship with a woman who lives in Toronto. I live in New York City. Yes I do get those feelings each and every day. What do I do, look at her picture, call her and talk and sometimes just think of happy times w have spent together. We only see each other once every 2-3 months but it works. Plans are being made for us to get married at this time. Keep the faith my friend and things will work out for the best. If it is meant to be it will happen. Just keep your head high and things will work out for you.
2006-08-29 06:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by hoboken134 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've felt this. Like my bones are actually twisting! You are getting a whole lot more than I ever have. My bf went overseas to be with his ill mother. Sadly, she pass away. Since then, because it is so expensive, he has only called maybe 3 times in the six, going on seven months he's been away. He doesn't write, he doesn't email. He claims laziness is the reason, but he still loves and wants me; when I call him! I have learned to move on with my life. I have stopped trying to contact him after letting him know I feel abandoned. The ball is in his court and if he still wants me and loves me, like he always says when I do break down and call, he'll have to reach for me. I told you this to make a point.
Your situation is totally different. You should be secure in the knowledge that your loved one and you are doing all you can to keep the lines of communication open and actively expressing your love and commitment to one another. Appreciate that! In the meantime, do more on your own to keep yourself occupied while you are apart. See friends, read, write, get out of the house. Volunteer to help someone or some cause. You are blessed to know your love is secure. Again, appreciate that.
2006-08-29 06:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going though the same thing right now and I know the hurt feeling that your talking about on the inside your stomach,heart,head and everything else! Just try telling your partner how you feel and your partner may see if it's something that they can do to make things a little better until you both can move together!!! When I get sick I make a call to let my partner know just how much I love them and can't wait to be together again!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-29 06:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by Love Hurts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat, but my husband is on a different coast. I really dont handle it. I just moved to this area, and no one understands how i feel.. I listen to music alot, because it expresses how i feel. I just saw my husband and we are looking into november for another flight. We are trying to figure out financially how we can be together after his deployment. It's a hard road, and you just have to tell yourself its worth it. Find goals, like mine is to get back down to a size 5, so i can surprised my husband with my new look. Find friends (i have found it difficult, becuase of the differentness of my situation). look foreward. cry a little.
2006-08-29 06:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by blueeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really is no way to get over that...the best thing is just to not think about how much you miss the other person and keep busy in the off time
2006-08-29 06:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by chelsetoots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and important not to reflect that or take that out on each other. If you truly can move closer to one another...then it's worth it...if not - it's not worth it..so be sure on that one.
But since you say you have plans in the making to move closer to one another..then keep your eyes on the prize - on the light at the end of the tunnel.
Good luck to you both! : -)
2006-08-29 06:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and sometimes I feel panicky. I just have to remember that things will be different very soon. The hope of having a happy tomorrow keeps me grounded today~
2006-08-29 06:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....atleast you get to see your partner every other weekend, my boyfriend and i are just like yall, we're happy wit each other, and we keep in touch every day, but i dont get to see him as often as you, i havent seen hinm in like 2 months already, but i do get upset and i do feel like you do, all i do when i feel like that, is that i think about the good times we've had together, and i think about the things we're going to do when we see each other, so dont think ur alone...ur not
2006-08-29 06:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by ♥c3$@r & @n!♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can hurt like hell and squeeze inside like u could actually get sick from it..
All I can say is (if at all possible).. NEVER DO IT AGAIN!!!!
..at least you get to see each other every weekend!!
Best of luck to you both!
2006-08-29 06:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by seaofcolour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have felt that way before. However, I pray to God and ask him for serenity and to just protect my loved ones while we are apart, and then I feel so much better. Works for me anyway!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-29 06:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by kirby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋