want to do anything...he is always to tired...is there anyway to get him in the mood? Backrubs don't work, (he enjoys them to much) I always try & intiate it but he is always like I'm tired not right now...
We have been together for almost 5 yrs now, & recently bought a house together, & weekends are fine but when he works I can't seem to get him in the mood
2006-08-29 05:44:02 · 15 answers · asked by River rock 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he just lays on the couch & watches tv & eats dinner then its off to bed
2006-08-29 05:49:18 · update #1
He is an Ironworker...
2006-08-29 05:50:30 · update #2
Let him relax and have his dinner. Then when he heads to bed - go with him. Start kinda rubbing up against him, then kissing his neck. Wear a really sexy nighty too. If this doesn't get him in the mood, let him get a few hours of sleep, then play with his **** while he's sleeping. He'll start to get hard naturally, then just kinda get on top of him. I've never met a guy that wouldn't respond to this -no matter how tired they are.
Good luck!!
2006-08-29 06:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by newty111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does he do for work that makes him so tired every night you try? He needs to drink some energy drinks or something...since I don't drink coffee and I have to get up everyday early I drink Arizone Green Tea with ginseng...he should try that if he likes green tea. Ever try setting the mood?? Meaning spicing up your bedroom to where he can't resist you? Try either one of those...wish I could help more! Sorry and good luck!
2006-08-29 12:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by dancer1883 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey.. sometimes you just gotta deal with the fact that he is too tired... what kind of work does he do?? If work is so physically demanding, then he has the right to be tired.. at least you still get some bum on weekends... if he still wants it on the weekends take what you can get.. your sex drives are obviously not in sync... Take what you can get... if he is tired just try to understand or masterbate...
2006-08-29 12:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's tired. There's nothing you can do if he's fatigued after a long days work. You best bet is to make him as comfortable as possible.
2006-08-29 12:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by Honey Dip 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just put ur self in his shoes. i think he will be tired give some tea and ask him to relax and take him to bed if it doesnot work. try in the morning. im sure it will work
2006-08-29 13:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by jaishankar4202002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him relax and do his thing and then when you feel in the mood, start without him. I'm sure that he will feel not so "tired" then.
2006-08-29 12:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by qtpie2526 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does he go to sleep when he gets home from work? If so, wait till he wakes up from his sleep or nap then do it then. Or, get up an hour early and try before work instead
2006-08-29 12:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Sammy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
early morning is a good way to go. gentle kisses on the back of the neck, followed by, well use your imagination. good luck.
2006-08-29 12:56:02 · answer #8 · answered by tashton2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.... his job is tiring. when i'm tired i don't want to either, my gf is the same.
try to get him to change jobs if it wears him out to much.
2006-08-29 12:49:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not sit him down and talk with him about it? See if he has anything to say about it.
2006-08-29 12:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by Chris H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋