English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

This question is mainly for non - black women. To all the other women out there... Are you interested in, or have you dated a black man? If so, what is the attraction honestly?

Is it the rhythm, walk, talk, style, sex, something different, to piss off your family, because its taboo, overall attraction, want interracial kids. Maybe you just dont see race as an issue. I have heard it all before, but want to get a read on the women here.

If you have NOT dated, or havent wanted to date a black male, why is that?

Didnt fit in, arent attracted to, family wouldnt like it, stereotypes say we are all bad, dont know any, dont like to mix cultures, you are racist.....

I am a black male and can make various assumptions, but I want to go straight to the source.

2006-08-29 05:36:49 · 9 answers · asked by Darkman 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

I personally I just find them to have a huge sex appeal to me. Also very attracted to them. They seem to carry themselves very well. Very confident. I do not see race as an issue. Color doesnt make you happy it's the person and how they treat you.

2006-08-29 05:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by ok 2 · 0 2

I dated a black man because he was good looking and a nice guy. I will be honest maybe part of it was because I wanted to know if what I had been told all my life was true," Black men are uneducated broke thugs and such". I have found out that like any other race of men they are all individuals. Some maybe those things and more but they are just people, guys, with the same wants and needs as any other human being on this planet. I am teaching my daughter that she should look at a person for who they are not what.

2006-08-29 12:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 2 0

I am white. I have dated around in my life and although I have dated pretty much every other race, (Indian, chinese, caucasian, hispanic, greek (although their skin is white), etc.) I have never been with a black man. I have never seen race as an issue as I was raised in a black family. I dont feel as though there is anything wrong with black men, and I am not sure why I have never done it. I dont think there is any good reason for it. I find black men very attractive and sometimes unbearably hot, but still have never dated one.

2006-08-29 12:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer C 1 · 2 0

I dated a man who is black. One of the reason is because I'm physically attracted to black guys, and to blonde guys. One extreme to the other. But the other reason why I dated him was because I liked him. But after 4 months of his constant lying and negative attitude I broke up with him. I see people and I know what attracts me physically. But people are human, I don't see why nationalities or ethnics should be an issue. I've dated both black and white men.

My family has white people, black people, hispanic people, and native american people. But the most important thing is that we are all people.

2006-08-29 12:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 2 0

i have dated black guys before never had sex with one i don't know why and i haven't dated one in many years i guess it's cuz i just love dominicans too much now

2006-08-29 13:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by babygirla718 4 · 2 0

i am a white male and I have dated black females it was only for the sex

2006-08-29 12:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by dg_154u 2 · 1 2

I have. We both had other relationships @ the time, so I guess it was just a passtime kinda relationship. It was fun... then he was killed.

2006-08-29 12:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by Julie G 3 · 2 0

i loveeeeeeee to have a family with mixing cultures..i love asian..latinos..african..the race that have strong culture..i love colors!~ its just me..

2006-08-29 12:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by rayna 3 · 2 0

I have and it was because he was a really nice guy, I don't see color

2006-08-29 12:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 2 0

fedest.com, questions and answers