would cps really say this?

Question

a couple weeks ago i reported to cps about a 3 yr old i keep 2/3 days a week all night since she was 1 her we have know the parents for years. child was asking little boys at daycare to see there penis and would come tell me and they cought her once than mom tells her to say i is not talk about it. she would lay on baby or put the head on her private. the mother called me to day cuz she had to go to cps yesterday to say the child was staying home a couple weeks i played it so she wouldnt think it was me. she said her case worker told her this is normal that his 3 yr old sits in front of the mirror naked looking/touching. would they tell her that and tell her tht the stuff reported is normal that if she was being abused she wouldnt talk to strangers shed be scared. some one tell me something also is there a web sit i can look up to find out about the report or am i allowed to call and find out anything.

not unreadable the ? is at the bottom but not one of u @ss holes answered it if u need 2 points that bad just put yes or no

Answer 1

I beleive you did the right thing! Whenever you have a gut instinct about abuse report it! When I was a child I was severely abused and no one took notice or helped if they did notice. CPS said that my parents were doing what they could (I would have black and blue marks all over me from a pvc pipe that I got hit with!) The person who answered your question and commented on your spelling is an @$$!!!! We all need to take notice and protect our children! If more people took notice we would have less crime and abuse in the world. You deserve praise for the help not a put down! If this child is putting other childrens heads against her genitals, THIS IS NOT NORMAL. If this child sleeps in her parents room and she is old enought to know what they are doing then they should NOT be having sex in front of her. My daughter co-slept with my husband and I and we never had sex in front of her. If you do that is abuse! you would not watch a porno in front of your child would you? Thank you for your help! I would hope that if someone thought something was happening to my daughter or son that they would tell me or report it too! BRAVO!

Answer 2

I can only guess at what your question is asking because your question borders on unreadable. I hope that someone taking care of this child can actually communicate and teach her something, because you're absolutely unqualified to teach this child anything.

If what you're asking is whether it's normal for children that age to touch their privates and look at them in the mirror, the answer is yes. And most children who are abused are instructed by the abuser to never tell anyone about it, and the abuser is often times successful in getting the child's cooperation.

I also wonder what you're doing taking care of children when you're not even aware that at this age it's very normal for children to be curious about the opposite sex's anatomy.

Finally, the report is none of your business. If you were concerned about the child, you did your part. Leave it to the professionals.

But then, I do wonder about the parents who would leave their child with someone who has no idea how to even use a period or comma in a sentence. Maybe they should be investigated.

Answer 3

It is normal for children at this age to be more aware of differences in boys and girls. But, at the same time, I am wondering where this child learned names of privates, it may be that mom and dad are just really good at informing their child. Also, the child could be acting out things that she saw if she sleeps in parents room. I think cps see things like this enough to know when there is abuse. I don't think there is anything you can do to find out the details of the report. My suggestion is to talk to your friend and ask straight what's up.

Answer 4

First of all, yes, it is very normal for a child this age to me touching them selves, I have a 3 and 4 year old........ secound, CPS will not let you see any reports nor tell you about the situation.......... been ther done that............ so needless to day. I think you might want to talk to the girls parents before you go accusing

Answer 5

first of all after a considerable amount of time I was able to decipher your illiterate ramblings, and although I think I have fathomed what you are trying to say I am amazed that someone of your obvious intellectual level is even allowed to take responsibility and care of children. have you any idea and the total lack of communication skills you have exhibited here in your ramblings? I suggest before you start handing out accusations you get an education then maybe you will be in a position to formulate a coherent debate.

Answer 6

What you are trying to convey "seems" important, but I honestly can't decipher the story. How can you come here to ask a question about something as important as possible child abuse, and then not even attempt to use punctuation or proper grammar? Please post this question again.