I lived with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is 46 and I am 27, he also has three children from previous marriage. I really hasitated to move in with him cuz I don't believe in cohabitation. But I am living with him cuz of my circumstances. The cituation is bothering me cuz I believe it's not a right decision to live with somebody without being married. What should I do?
2006-08-29 05:26:17 · 8 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow your heart. If you know it's not right then don't do it. There's no shame in moving back home until you can afford to be on your own again.
2006-08-29 05:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has your situation improved? Can you move out & make it on your own? Since there really isn't enough info as to the circumstances on why you "had" to move in with him, it's hard to give you a definitive answer. If you don't believe in cohabitation, then rent from him & don't have sex. That way he'd be your landlord, not someone you're shacked up with. On the other hand, examine why you are so against living with someone without being married & decide - do your circumstances outweigh your discomfort? If yes, then move out. If you can live with the decision to live with him, then give it your all & work at building something that might lead to marriage. Otherwise, it sounds like you might just be using him as a place to stay.
2006-08-29 12:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a common law marriage, and your in way over your head. Its a little too late to think about marriage the normal way. What is your circumstances? You need to give us more info so we can help you. If you are using your b/f then you should really look hard at how and what you feel for him before you continue on.
You moved in with him this long and your conscience is just bothering you now? Figure out your priorities!
2006-08-29 12:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there until you see if it is good or not, cause if you marry him right away and he has 3 kids, uggahhhhhhhhhhh could be a big problem, but if your not hitched, and it looks bad you can pack up in a heart beat and your out of there! Your already sleeping with him anyway what will a few more months make, just don;t get pregnant or uggahhhhhhhhh big problem!
2006-08-29 12:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion to you is just wait and see what happened? Don't rush into marriage yet.Just asked yourself is he the one you really wanna be with. Only you can answer that.If you can move out ,then do so . sometimes being away for someone makes you realize how you really feel about them.and if you feel the same about him ,then you take it from their.
Good luck!!!!!!!!
2006-08-29 13:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by princess11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u think he's gonna marry u eventually? If not and u're not happy right now, u might as well end the relationship now
2006-08-29 12:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by Neutro 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're the only one who can anwser that question, follow your heart
2006-08-29 12:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are too young for him!!
2006-08-29 12:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by d.ylover 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋