he is not bothered about my emotions......cracks stupid jokes on me???? what should i do??
2006-08-29 05:15:07 · 12 answers · asked by tania 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't settle for that kind of treatment. You have to know that you are to be treated with respect. If he can't support you emotionally then maybe you should leave the relationship. Sounds like he's immature. If you really care for him, give him some time to grow up.If you don't see any improvement then you need to move on. Don't waste your time. There are plenty of nice young men who are willing to treat you like a queen. Please don't allow anyone to take advantage of your body. You don't have to give in or be pressured to have sex. Hold on to your innocence.
2006-08-29 05:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by dimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you should never get sexual with someone, until you know if the relationship is going anywhere. In other words, work on the other parts of the relationship first, sex should be the last thing to bring into a relationship.
See how well the guy can take care of you emotionally. If he'll cheer you up on your bad days, and celebrate with you on your good days. You need to find someone who will be there for you, no matter what mood you are in.
Anyone who cracks jokes at your expense, especially when you are emotionally vulnerable, is NOT the guy you want to be with.
Leave him and find yourself someone who deserves you, and knows how to treat a woman.
2006-08-29 12:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want a lasting relationship with him, then you need to talk to him about it.
If he isn't a total loser, then he will realize his incredible rudeness and know off his lowly behavior.
If you do not see a lasting relationship, then dump the loser and do it fast. No one has the right to tear down a person for any reason.
2006-08-29 12:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Wayne 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down and talk to him about this.
There's a high chance he doesn't understand, that you are upset about this. I had this experiance once, and he was shocked, apologized but in the same time, he asked me how long I was thinking this way, because I've never mentioned it with him seriously.
2006-08-29 12:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your boyfriend wants to continue your relationship he needs to think of you on all levels...like I'm sure you do. Talk to him about it and see what he says. If he's only with you b/c of the sex then that's not a good relationship. He needs to be with you besides the physical...talk to him...
2006-08-29 12:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by dancer1883 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i kwn all you females don't understand this form of men but.. what he is doing is a lite form of flirting YES Flirting!! not all men are in touch with what i call there OPREA side meaning there feminine side were he can touch you heart with sweet words of kindness all men aren't the same as all women aren't either, the point is tell him what you dnt like about it, see if that works dont always think of breaking up as a option
2006-08-29 12:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is just with you for the sex, does he say he loves you? This is not a healthy relationship, get out.
2006-08-29 12:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a Sex girlfriend He wants nothing else but sex from you...this relationship won't go far...
2006-08-29 12:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how he makes u feel if he's not interested drop him u can do better! u need a complete relationship not just sex!
2006-08-29 12:26:25 · answer #9 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. You deserve better, and from the sound of it, better is not that hard to find. He's using you for sex, and you are smarter than that. He's not that great.
2006-08-29 12:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋