hurt his feelings, but he keeps calling and asking why would I not want to go on another date with him... we had 2 dates so far, and he was so nice to me and he seemed like the perfect man for me, except for that little detail I cannot ignore... we actually didn't sleep together, we just touched and I found that out... I'm so sad... and he's so in love with me and I can't see him again... what do I tell him? without hurting his feelings... or should I tell him the truth?
2006-08-29 05:14:15 · 38 answers · asked by crietrop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if he is really a nice guy then maybe you should forget about the little penis thing and not allow that to break the bond the two of u have created. Not for nothing everything can't be perfect we are not made to be perfect. If you have a man that you know that is in love with you then you should consider your self blessed. Cause it's hard to find a good man that loves you unconditionally without even having to think twice about it. So if you break up with him and get with the next man with a big penis who's to say he is going to love you like the one you have now. Get with the program and don't allow this one little thing cost you someone that could be the husband God intended for you to have. Besides you haven't even had sex with him yet and you have already gave him the pink slip because his penis is small. You can't always judge a book by the way it feels or looks at least try it out before you say you can't be with him. Just because it's small doesn't mean he can't put in work and do the damn thing when it comes down to sexing. So just give him a chance and wait until the two of you make love before you toss him. If you still feel the same then break it off with him and deal with the idea that he could have been your soul mate.
2006-08-29 05:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, so far you have gotten slammed by almost everyone on this, but it can be a predicament for some people. Granted you have only seen him twice, and in your words "he seemed like the perfect man for me" except his penis is extremely small. If that is a deciding factor for you then it is a deciding factor for you. I also wonder why he wants to go out again so badly, if you went that far on only two dates he may be expecting something more or think he can get more. Honestly, if it was true love size does not matter, it could be a little rice dick or the size of a horse, and it wouldn't matter if you truely felt something for him. And for being honest and telling him you can't go out with him cause his penis is too small, don't do that. You're already knocknig him down because you won't go out with him, but to add to it that he has no penis, that would just be cruel and wrong. What ever you do, remember, things come back three fold onto people, good or bad, your next boy friend may have one too big to fit and he won't care about you or what you do!
2006-08-29 05:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by PDK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are very poor priorities.. You are complaining about his small penis. But ask yourself how you would feel if you found a post on YA from boyfriend saying yes his girlfriend is OK, but her butt is huge or her breasts nearly touch her knees and should you ditch her ! What is more important to you ? Considering yourself lucky that you have found yourself a nice guy that treats you good, not to mention a kid that isn't his or having a guy with a big di*ck ! Your call !
2016-03-27 00:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do him a favor and inform him that you don't feel for him as he feels for you. After all, he deserves better. You had two dates with a "wonderful guy that you really like", except for his penis size, he would be perfect for you (your words). He does not attempt to force sex upon you yet you is upset over his penis size. Maybe he was not aroused during those touching moments. But that does not matter, but size does matters to you. During sex, more than the penis is used. It may be he was as close to finding a perfect guy that you will get. Anyway, inform him so he can find someone who will appreciate him, penis size and all.
2006-08-29 05:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ntrigue1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
~Oh goodness gracious! Get rid of him quickly! Just explain to him that after groping his d!ck on the second date, you weren't impressed with his manliness and that things like a good personality aren't important to you. Of course, there is the possibility that he isn't really so in love with you afterall. Perhaps when you squeezed his johnson, he wasn't as aroused by you as you might have expected. Maybe he's just calling you because he figures that if you cop d!cks on the 2nd date, you'll give head on the third. Could be that he just thinks your an easy piece of @ss.
2006-08-29 05:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The size of someone's penis shouldn't be what decides whether or not you want to be with them. You can tell him that their is no connection between you guys and its best if you are just friends. Just make sure that you say it nicely and no different explanation could be said that you don't like him because of his size
2006-08-29 05:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by Babygurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does size even matter? If you haven't slept with him, you cannot judge if the sex would be bad or good. You'd be surprised, some men who aren't ''well endowed", can still please a woman better than the men who are. Size doesn't matter, it's whether or not they have the knowledge on how to use it.
But anyways, end the relationship, because if you are considering leaving someone because of the size of a part of their body, that they have no control over........you don't deserve him anyways.
2006-08-29 05:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell him that y'all are moving too fast and you need some space. Once he gives you your space, stop calling him and eventually y'all will go separate ways. I don't think you should tell him the truth because that really messes with the ego of a man. maybe the two of you can stay together and he can take enlargement pills.
2006-08-29 05:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A very good friend of mine had that very same problem, he was cute, worked hard, saved his money.... but lacked in other areas. However I managed to talk some kind of sence in her, telling her that compaired to these other guys shes had in her life this guys actually wants to take care of her and actually care about her feelings.....they've been together for 15 years and she couldnt be happier. We still talk about that sometimes and think of where she might have ended up today had she shunned him because of his size.
2006-08-29 05:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by rigginator 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not in love after 2 dates. Beyond that, you shouldn't know the size of his penis after 2 dates. Just tell him you're not interested if this is a big deal to you. However, it's not the size, it's whether he knows what he's doing.
2006-08-29 05:17:49 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋