Ok so I work a lot and don't have much time to go out and look for a guy. When I get home from work I go to the gym, I used to like to go out and have some drinks....but I have never met anyone at a bar that I remotely liked soo....that is out! I found myself laying in bed last night and thinking.."Well how am I going to meet someone if I don't get out of the house" I just want someone to find me. :( But where have all the good guys gone?
2006-08-29 05:06:53 · 15 answers · asked by haleigh b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am just soooo tired and mentally drained after work and plus I am new to the area and everyone I meet is just....um not my style.
2006-08-29 05:11:52 · update #1
Yeah I work out but isn't it cheesy to go up to a guy in the gym?
2006-08-29 05:44:51 · update #2
Just give it time. You sound like a pleasant person and will probably meet someone you like in the normal course of things, without your scanning the horizon, which can be emotionally exhausting. People meet in bookshops or in grocery stores or on the Metro quite by accident, and some of those encounters prove to be long-lasting. Stay cheerful in the meantime.
2006-08-29 05:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by tirumalai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best place you could meet a good guy would be at the supermarket, Starbucks or a bookshop. Guys who usually go to bars have a one track mind and some of them are good or have good intentions they just don't bring it there, try the gym, it's kinda sexy with the sweat and all. If not try bringing a book to a park,someone might strike a conversation with ya, worked for me one time.Happy searching!
2006-08-29 05:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by veronica_mars 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly that is kind of hard because you can meet a good guy anywhere, esp in the unexpected places. Me personally I like to hang out at this local Jamaican spot with a couple of buddies and have some drinks. You dont like the bar scene then go to starbucks, or an outing event. Realisticly you can find us anywhere.
2006-08-29 05:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by DLB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try another tactic and another bar. When I was looking to meet someone I never did as soom as I did I could meet men left and right. the key is to not look single. Take some friends and head to a near by city or small town bar. Hang out dance, play pool (bad) someone is likely to notice you and offer a hand and then there you are in conversation with the oppisite sex. No one will find you you need to get out and meet as many men as you can! Or join an internet dating site. (my luck with that was all men who still live with their parents)
2006-08-29 05:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't get out of the house, order a pizza. Then answer the door naked and just grab the guy.
You look normal enough. Is it your personality that drives them away or do you reject them because you have high standards? Somethings got to give. Maybe you will meet some random guy on Yahoo will like you for who you are! A lonely desperate white female with no hobbies! (wink wink)
2006-08-29 05:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look online for party places and get all pretted up ask some friends if they know anywhere to go u need some time to urslef go ahead and have fun and if nothing gives the first time kepp trying u seem to be a beatiful person dont give up loacls are always looking jus like u u just have to give it a chance
2006-08-29 05:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't laugh, no joke, "The Grocery Store" Super Market, a lot of single guys who don't like bars and will definately check you out!
2006-08-29 05:10:08 · answer #7 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine the guy you would like. Think about where you would like him to go regularly. Go to this place. Join a club or organization involved in the sorts of activities that interest you.
2006-08-29 05:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and get out more. Most of the times its when you aren't looking the guys find you.
2006-08-29 05:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by RACQUEL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you did say that you work out, so why dont you find a guy that has things in common with you?? Talk to them and find out if they are nice guys or just eye candy
2006-08-29 05:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by kram_7777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋