after im done, i feel sick. like not throw up sick but like " is wat i just did wrong?" sick. like i feel a little disgusted...whats the matter with me?!
2006-08-29 04:56:54 · 28 answers · asked by Dragonfly :) 4 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
masturbating is just like procrastinating
you'll realize you were just screwing yourself in the end!
2006-08-29 05:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by anhzan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't think there's anything wrong with you. I think it's more of how we're raised to think. While masturbasting all that matters is to get it done but after it you're brain start working again and you probably start worrying what people would think if they saw you. So just change the way you think (of course this will take time) and you'll stop feeling sick about yourself. Lust is seen as the forbidden fruit and is look down upon so stop looking down on it and just enjoy it. You're young only once.
2006-08-29 05:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by niteangelcat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if you feel sick with yourself, or feel nausea.
If you feel sick with yourself then this must be due to feelings of guilt. Please don't feel guilty hon, in my opinion there is nothing wrong with knowing your own body, and knowing how to give yourself an orgasm. Nothing dirty about it, nothing at all.
If your feelings are more like nausea then this might be because there is a rush of hormones when you reach orgasm and this could cause the nausea.
Take care and try not to worry hon.
2006-08-29 05:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by Alfa Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to advise this, but go talk to some perverted men about this.
They tend to see female masturbation as an almost holy ritual, something beautiful and right, like a priestess worshipping at her own temple. They'll tell you it's an innocent expression of your sensuality, a blissful little secret.
Then they'll ask to watch, of course, but ignore that part.
2006-08-29 05:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know,when i was young i was told that it made you go blind if you did it.Well i"m all grown-up and my eyesight has never been better.It"s an old taboo thing,most of our older folk were told it was wrong,they told our parents it was wrong,and most of them will probably tell us it is wrong as well.Rubish,there is no better way to know your own body and be eventually able to lead your future partner"to the right places".There is absolutely no reason for you to feel guilty.I have three kids of my own and i still do it!
2006-08-29 05:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by porkupuss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't worry about it You are probably batteling two view points.....On the one hand you have need and ARe meeting them....On the other hand....You feel it;s a sin and feel guilty...
I don't like masturbating myself but if there is a GREAT need I rather take care of my own needs...I know where I been and it safer than going out and having Cheap Sex...
Handle your business
2006-08-29 06:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you fantasize when you masturbate? If so, are you okay with the stories you imagine? Sometimes I'm not, and maybe that's why sometimes I too feel that way.
It might also just be you just went thru a power surge, and are now experiencing a deep mellowness.
2006-08-29 05:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by Joy_Brigade 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's probably because of your education. There are many times when parents tell children that is very wrong to masturbate. The truth is that is nothing wrong with it, and it's much better to use this form of relief than to go and have sex when you are not really emotionally ready for it. Hold on in there, again, there is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbating.
2006-08-29 05:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I guess we all feel like that but hey in the next few mins after your not even thinking about thatl. every one do that and feel that way sometimes it's all apart of human nature dont feel bad sweetie your not the only one
2006-08-29 05:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by yaya t 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. I'm guessing your parents told you it was wrong and vile and despicable to masterbate, so thats why you feel the way you do. I'd say just keep dong it, those feelings will subside.
2006-08-29 05:00:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should not feel bad. It is a way of understanding your body. How better to know your own body than to experiment? When you get a boyfriend and are ready to make love, you can show him what you like and so forth.
2006-08-29 04:59:51 · answer #11 · answered by theodore.story 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋