my b/f & i have been 2gether for 9 months he has an ex-wife who hes not even completely divorced from yet & they have 2 kids 2gether i recently met another guy whos been in the coast guard hes so sweet and hes hot and i just feel like there might be a connection but we havent messed around or nething cuz i wouldnt cheat but my b/f found out that i only TALKED to him and hes been yelling at me for the past 4 days and he gets really angry and punches himself in the head and rips his clothes off...i just dont know what i should do i know i still care about my boyfriend but i dont know if this is going to work
2006-08-29 04:44:43 · 13 answers · asked by KrIsTyN 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my gosh he sounds rather hostile.Get rid of him before he rips you apart.Coast guard hum. sounds like an exciting adventure with him.I think you really have made up your mind sweety.You just need to hear that it is ok,and it is.Lets just weigh this up hum.....COAST GAURD sweet.....hostile,a highly probable abusive relationship.Get away.Good Luck,you can do this!!!!!!
2006-08-29 04:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by sandy v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be wise~ be wise~ just imagine when u guys married and if u did something wrong..he might punch u n bang u and maybe rip ur clothes off!~ thats sound terrible gurl...u need to get out from this relationship fast..furthermore..he's going to get divorced whith 2 kids..dont u think they were happy before? he might do the same too u..
doesnt matter the coast guard or whoever..u need better partner that will care for u now..sweetness is not enough..
good luck gurl!
2006-08-29 04:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by rayna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right it is not going to work, dump him. You have the chance of a lifetime. if you like the other guy so much leave your boyfriend. Do you really think is worth it to be with somebody that is partially divorced. Plus you problably don't know if they are together or not, the usually are. So he might be cheating on you. Do what your heart tells you and whats right for YOOOUUUU!!!!
2006-08-29 04:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by lluvia2wcc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the one who inflicts pain on himself and go with the coast guard guy before this loon hits you. If he's still married, it's not a good idea to mess with him anyway. It's just trouble.
2006-08-29 04:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the ????!!!
In the first place your present boy friend does NOT have an X-wife if they are not "completely" divorced yet...lol...he's a married man until YOU see the divorce papers...he's frickin MARRIED!!! You shouldn't be with him period ..so you could hardly cheat on a man that is married to someone else...he is the one cheating on his wife that he is not "completely" divorced from yet...especially if he has kids...the poor kids! What a cad they have for a dada...and what an idiot too...he puches himself in the head and rips his clothes off?...this is your dream man? RoTFL..sure hope not. NOooooooooooooooooo of course it's not going to work...
As long as Mr. Coastguard guy isn't married and isn't into taking moron fits like your present (gagging here) boyfriend....then sounds like a no-brainer to me...dump mr. married idiot head puching clothes-ripper-offer...and go sail with the coastguard!
2006-08-29 04:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whoa you need to go be with that coast guard guy. If your bf gets that angry about you talking to other guys, no wonder hes divorced! Get out now.
2006-08-29 04:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by Stacy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! You need to really be careful sweetie. It sounds like this guy has some anger management issues and you could be in harms way! One thing to remember is that he is still dealing with his divorce issues and he will need time to heal from those. If you are attracted to this other guy..this tells me that you are not as content as you may think you are. My suggestion would be to distance yourself from your current BF and give him time to heal. As far as this other guy? Your a single girl :0)
2006-08-29 04:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by txgrlw/question 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, leave. if this is the only thing you did that make him go psycho. then you can't stay in a relationship that makes you feel intimidated. it's never healthy to be with someone who shows violence and irrational. i know he might be sweet when he calm down, but his ugly side is really ugly. don't stay baby girl. end it while you still can.
2006-08-29 04:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just jealous that I have a sound relationship w/ a girl, have a solid education and great career. It sounds like your life sucks and I'd rather die than be you for a second.
2006-08-29 09:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he has some emotional problems, people who hit , or cut themselves donot know how to release there hurt, or anger in other ways. I would be more concerned about that.
2006-08-29 07:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋