I broke up with this guy cos i found out that he got married a couple a moths ago it still hurting what can i do?
2006-08-29 04:40:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing you can do is move on. Take it one day at a time. Believe me you've got it easy. At least the guy knows how you feel right? Well in my case I wasn't so futunate I broke up with my guy years ago over my jealousy issues. I never had the chance to tell him how much I really loved him because he passed away. Life is too short keep on living and learn from this experience it wil help you grow. That's something that I've earned from my horrible experince. No matter how much it hurts we have to go on. You'll be just fine, have faith be strong you can do this. Good luck, be safe.
2006-08-29 04:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get distracted. Go out with other guys...several. Be active. Always stay busy. Life will pick up again and you will be over it. In fact you'll probably meet someone else eventually after you've healed and wonder why you got so worked up about this guy in the first place.
2006-08-29 11:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happen to me. But i had my family started going out more and enjoy the single life. Go out to different places were you'll meet people that are not like him. Watch funny movies or read magazines. Entertain yourself, this is the chance you have to do a lot of things on your own. And the thing that help the most was getting rid of all the ***t he gave me and his pictures, that way i don't have any reminder of him. Don't worry, Be happy.
2006-08-29 11:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by lluvia2wcc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read "It's Called a Breakup Because it's Broken" By Greg and Amiira Bherent (the same guy that wrote "He's just not that into you." I had a hard time with a break-up around Christmas, and that book helped me turn the breakup into a fresh start at life.
2006-08-29 11:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were a guy i'd say go to a strip club, unfortunately you would look silly doing that so just go partying and have a couple of one night stands i'm sure that will take your mind off him. Ohh and drink lots of alcohol because you wont regret the one night stands as much
2006-08-29 11:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by spunkster12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl sit back and chill drink a little if you are of age and jsut get over it...I know it is hard but get another man...men come and go you are learning the hard way...you will not die it will just make you stronger and wiser for the next guy...good luck
2006-08-29 11:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by MZ.LANDA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a picture of him I suggest putting it up somewhere and throw darts at him til you feel better. And you can always tell yourself that ur lucky you aren't the one who married him...he's obviously not the faithful kind.
2006-08-29 11:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you really like him then do something constructive. You know everybody is always like get over it and move on but i know how it is. Make someone jealous. thats what i do. I always dress up really nice and make someone really jealous wether it be him or not. You ll feel better about yourself.
2006-08-29 11:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by frenchiejamie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry! Get out with friends and get back in the dating scene
2006-08-29 11:48:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just accept it and move on. It's the only way to heal.
2006-08-29 11:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋