Why do girls reject me all the time?

Question

I am Athletic, good loocking, smart, interesting person...I wear casual clothing, stuff like AE, Aber, Hollister, Old Navy...I have Ashley Parker Angel Hair style...kinda...

Yet, girls always reject me when I ask out ... and some girls find other, less interesting guys instead...rednecks to say so...

What the **** is wrong with them???

I;ve asked MANY out and non worked...

Answer 1

You are probably approaching the wrong women. I don't know why it is.. but it seems like the people we want dont want us and likewise those who want us, we really do not want.

Answer 2

Hmm, you sound like a typical uh guy most girls would wanna date.

I don't think the rejection is personal, they're just not interested. I mean for someone to pass you up, is totally crazy. Don't put yourself down because you can't find someone to go out with.

It also seems like you just want to have a girlriend for the sake of having a girlfriend. That comes off to girls and people as you not ready for a relationship, only a hook up. If you concentrated more of your time on just yourself, and prove to others that you're committed, girls will see that and hopefully bring them to like you.

There is nothing wrong with girls; they just have a funny way of showing things sometimes.

Sooner or later, you'll find somone that's perfect for you. Don't worry about it now, you got the rest of your whole life to figure out who you're going to spend it with.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Asking girls for a date is like direct marketing. If one marketing strategy doesn't work, analyze it and see what can be improved. If your direct approach doesn't work, try other methods such as internet dating (then they don't have to see your face and the way you dress). Remember...it's a numbers game. One out of ten will eventually say yes. But make sure it's a good approach. It only takes one bad opening line for a girl to say No.

Remember...you're selling yourself. It's either people want to buy the product if they like it or ignore the product if they don't.
If all fails...then change your image. Also better check if your breath smells.

Answer 4

hey there,
here are some basic rules before asking out a girl

1) first get to know the girl
2) start a conversation, making sure not talking all to much about your self
3) dont brag, until they want you
4) most girls love surprises
5) dont ask them out until they have given the first signs of wanting to be with you
6) give the impression that you are in for a steady an long lasting relationship...
i think that is okay for a start. good luck

Answer 5

Being a nice guy can hurt but if your honest and still get rejected it's time to move on. It will be hard an when it is all over the same girl will cry to you over an idiot jerk she's trying to change. Let past be past move forward "Best Answer:" say work on and be careful for gold diggers

Answer 6

The only thing I can think of that you may be doing is being too full of yourself- I could be wrong, but over confidence is one of my biggest turn offs. Try to be more romantic, thoughtful, write notes, just concentrate on one girl at a time--- ya know, don't come across as the 'player' type. Women like men that they think will be in it for more than a week or two. We just don't want to waste our time on people like that.

Answer 7

hmmm...ur little comment about "less interesting guys" makes me wonder if u have a self-esteem issue( as in, too much!)
Maybe the other girls can see that (I could) and want nothing to do with a snobby pretty-boy. Despite the fact that the guys they choose might not be as cool as you, girls see that guys like that aren't as focused on themselves and are often tender and affectionate and caring with the ones they love. Even if the girl isn't overly pretty, those other guys will treat them like GOLD,and the girls know it and love it.
I don't think this problem lies with the girls, buddy...
(u can ask me for advice if u want)

Answer 8

maybe you're after girls that are not in your class, not of your family's income level, not of your nationality/race, not of your materialistic level, etc. Maybe you have space between your teeth or they are yellow, or maybe they don't like your aftershave fragrance. Do you have any bad habits, a unibrow, choose all black clothing and wear lots of earings, ride a motorcycle, have a waterbed? Who knows why. Sounds as though they are rednecks if they are attracted to rednecks.

What is your age? Are you in college yet? After college? we could give you responses for all levels. Eventually you will fit in. Keep up the good work.

Answer 9

Well this is my opinion, you should be your self, do you think girls actually do care what type of brand of clothes that you wear? No they don't.
Just sit down and think really hard on what you are doing wrong. Maybe you think about your self too much, and you don't give the girls that your meeting a chance to know them.

Answer 10

looks are only skin deep, maybe its your personality and maybe your not as good lookin as you think.. but the most likely reason is your going after the wrong girl.. the snotty bitches that think too highly of themselves.. your ego seems pretty big as you have enough confidence to ask 'so' many girls out, maybe you should just wait till you find a girl you know is also attracted to you, maybe youl get a yes. Your confidence maybe intimidating..

Answer 11

Aww Im sorry lol rednecks are just HOTT thats what I want in a guy also but you sound cute and sweet but sum girls like guys that are like rednecks see most of them are risk takers riding bulls broncs horses see they could get killed doing stuff like that and maybe you just aren't asking the right girls out lol ARE YOU ASKING THE CHEERLEADERS OUT???? cause if you are they're usually rich brats that think they rule the world and think they're better than everybody else!!