if a guy cheats on u , would u forgive him? and would u believe he could change? wb please xx?

Answer 1

Two out three inmates ...return to prison after being released. Some people change but most don't.

For people to change they need regular counseling and they need to take it seriously ... not just go because they have to. The have to want to change.

Answer 2

Depends who it was and what happened exactly. Some other factors are is he really sorry and willing to prove it through his actions again. I would forgive him though only once. I don't believe in once a cheater always a cheater. I believe in giving second chances to people since I've been forgiven for doing some pretty hurtful things to my ex boyfriend, it wasn't cheating but I was given multiple chances. I would hope for the best that he wouldn't cheat again and give him another chance. I wouldn't expect him to change anything else about himself though besides not cheating again. Another factor is that I'd have to get my trust in him again if I don't think I could then I wouldn't take him back at all since the relationship would fail without any trust.

Answer 3

I might forgive them but I don't know that I would stay in a relationship with them because it would be a very hurtful situation. And I don't think just because someone cheats that they will always be a cheater. People make mistakes and some learn from them so I dont think its safe to say that no guys change after they make a mistake.

In fact I know some guys who cheat on one girl all the time but the next girl they are with are completely faithful. I think a lot of it has to do with being happy.

Answer 4

You might be able to forgive a person for cheating, but it will most likely stay in the back of your mind all of the time. Which, in the long run will lead to a lot of trust issues. Even if does change and never does it again, you will always question what he is doing or where he is. It is a hard situation to work through.

Answer 5

i am a big believer in everyone deserves a second chance. cause i know that if i gave into tempation, and cheated on my guy i would want him to forgive me. it takes two to cheat, and if my guy happens to cheat on me then what was my part in it? i am also a believer that people can change if they want to and work at it. i dont think that once a cheater always a cheater. i myself am not the same person that i was a year ago. i have changed many things about myself, and i have assisted in a cheating situation, and i would not do it again. a person can learn from their mistakes only if they choose to.

Answer 6

NO! I would not forgive him. If he did it once he is gonna do it again. Be sure about that.
I forgave my ex when he cheated on me cause I saw him feeling really bad and he looked devastated when I dumped him. So after he swore to God...etc and cried out his heart for me, I though "well maybe I should forgive him, it was just a mistake".
But 3 moths later he did the same thing with another one.
I dumped him but suffered a lot. So darling, don't forgive him. You deserve better than that!

Answer 7

I would forgive him, depending on the circumstances, but I would also end the relationship. As for believing he was able to change - it depends, some people can and some can't. I would move on and not attempt to find out whether he was able to. My emotional health is worth more than living with the mistrust that would have been created. It's a choice only you can make.

Answer 8

HI, no i would never forgive him, and he will never change so no. but that is just me. It depends on the situation and why he did it but i suppose everyone deserves a second chance, but do you think that you could trust him because if he ever goes out,would you be thinking he was with someone else, it isnt healthy for you to worry like that. But if you can forgive and forget then good on you, but most women cant end up splitting with there boyfriend anyway because of it.

Answer 9

I believe once a cheater always a cheater. However, it really depends on the circumstance of his cheating. Sometimes, if he's been in a lengthy marriage it can actually help the marriage because he's happier and treats his wife better out of guilt. It can be a win / win situation is the wife isn't interested in a sexual relationship.

Answer 10

Do what you want to do, you have to live through your own experiences. And all those ppl going on n on bout how cheating is an unforgivable offence...i'm sure they've all cheated at least once...It happens. At the end of it all you'll find you've experienced something and learned from it, not everybody's situations turn out the same. Maybe you need to go through this to prepare you for something else. Live your own life, not everybody else's. Good luck

Answer 11

Every woman or man for that fact always states that they would never take back a cheater and that once a cheater always a cheater, but it's all words. It honestly depends on that person and that relationship. Only you yourself and your partner can make that decision for you. The only thing you have to remember is if you decide to give this person another chance, it means you are willing to let it go and move on. You are willing to give it another chance. This has happened to me before. I took my man back and we are better then ever. I won't lie to you and deny that it didn't hurt me at times, but I chose to forgive. You may never forget but you forgive. The one rule you have to remember is when you forget, it doesn't mean torture and make them feel bad constantly for what they did. By you taking them back, you took that next step to say you are ready to heal and forgive. Follow your heart and do whats best for you.