he talks about me a lot to his frnds and has a huge crush on me ( came to know about this from his classmates sis) but never talks to me , iam 13 he's 15 , what should i do? should i make d first move or let him come to me , he has a crush on me since 6 months!
2006-08-29 04:22:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be that he is taking his time to understudy you. so don't be to forward though depending on culture; if like him, u can still make the first move coz some guy are shy to approach women at first sight.
2006-08-29 04:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell u why he hasnt made a moove, i am 14 and dating a 16 year old. HES embarreseed if he asks u out. bcus ur younger than him. the same thing happened to me. i was also 13 and he was 15. we went out durring the summer nd he broke up with me evn tho he liked me alot cus we went to different skools and hes older than me. dont make the first move. yes u can flirt and show u like him bak BUt dont ask him out. he will if he REALLY wants to. and i know 6 monthes is a long tme. or maybe try talking to him. which ever of my options u wanna do. or choose ur own good luck. yay i get two points! and possiblyy ten....lol =)
2006-08-29 04:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by Dragonfly :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him back, talk to him. If you're confident enough, you can make the first move if you want because maybe he is shy or worried that you might reject him. Ask him if he would mind if you two hung out one day, and go from there. Or ask for his phone number first so you can get to know him. Or if you don't want to be so bold about it, ask him if you two could just be friends for a while.
2006-08-29 04:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u make the first move then u'll b goin against the gals rule sweet . let him make the first move ..mayb he needs some time or mayb hes just shy amm if u want him 2 propose 2 u then u can ask his sis 2 tell him that he should propose 2 u b4 some1 else does all the best !
2006-08-29 04:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by sweetheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puberty and sex.. Oh to re-live this, you couldn't pay me enough. In real life it doesn't work this way. You need to decide if you want this type of he said she said relationship? If you are into him and you want to initiate a relationship then you need to make a move. Face to face, no silly notes or telling your best friend to tell his best friend, ext. If you are ready and mature enough you will make the phon call yourself or in person. Communication is the most important part of any relationship. Go get em or let it go. NOW.
2006-08-29 04:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
precise, the guy and also you're taking section on your relationship .. you're speaking plenty, kissing, observing videos and so on. What do you by using putting forward, ""we do not move out yet?" do not you move out for videos? Do you watch at living domicile? after all, what you wrote is little unusual as you absolutely everyone is already having a strong relationship. each and each difficulty looks very precise, and if extremely wanna move to three places with him. tell him that you wanna move to three position (devoid of putting forward that you wanna move with him). i am hoping he receives the hint and ought to ask you to move out. Cheers!
2016-11-23 12:52:55 · answer #6 · answered by pires 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some hormones working .....why don`t you give him a chance or just approach him and tell him what you feel about the crush be open to him and see his reactions it may give him the confidence he needs to actually talk freely to you.
2006-08-29 04:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by Fantasia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the man make the move; it's so much more romantic and special-feeling than to rush him and ask him out; he might feel obligated to take you somewhere, and those kinds of dates are the worst
2006-08-29 04:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by Ayumi 23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't really like you maybe the girl just told you that making a joke but you'll never know unless you make the first move
2006-08-29 04:26:01 · answer #9 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be nervous kids your age dont have alot of experience with that kind of talk. i would say dont make the first move but just talk to him like u would any of your friends dont mention the crush and see how it goes
2006-08-29 04:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by spunkster12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋