Ok If your girlfriend out of the blue asked you if sleeping with a girl is cheating while the both of you were still together is this cheating?
She is sugguesting that she wants to sleep with a girl while in a relationship with me. I have really strong morals when it comes to cheating and was wondering if she was to sleep with a girl while in a relationship with me is that cheating?
2006-08-29 04:11:07 · 27 answers · asked by The Plague 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes
2006-08-29 04:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would it be cheating if she slept with a guy? I'm going to assume the answer is yes. So why would it be different if she slept with a girl?
If you are in a committed relationship where you haven't agreed that you could both see other people, doing anything sexual with someone else is cheating.
2006-08-29 11:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how it would make her feel if you slept with someone else. That is going to open a whole can of worms and if you say ok, she will assume it is ok for her to sleep with men and women. Maybe it is time for a new girlfriend that has the same morals as you. If she loves you the same way she would't be looking for others to fulfill her needs. I think she is being selfish.
2006-08-29 11:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by JACKIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To use your own words "if she was to sleep with a girl while in a relationship with me" - what do you think? Put it this way if 'girl' was replaced by 'guy' what would you think? - same thing - she's cheating it's just that she's telling you that she's cheating on you.
2006-08-29 11:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by Alright! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship is exclusive then its cheating. Plain and simple.
If you don't mind her being with other women then its not. If you really want to know how open your relationship is, ask her if it'd be cheating if you were with another man. Or a woman if that makes you uncomfortable.
2006-08-29 11:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so why does it make it all right because she is sleeping with a girl? Simply, because she would be sleeping with someone else makes it cheating. That's the way that I see it.
2006-08-29 11:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a commited relationship, then yes it is definitely cheating. It doesn't matter if she is gonna be with a girl or not. You are exclusive then it's not right for her to step out on you.
2006-08-29 11:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by lmkpink911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is cheating...she is just bisexual or she is just telling you in a nice way that you are not pleasuring her enough so she has to go to a girl or maybe she wants to have a 3some...and if that is the case honestly don't try marrying this girl....she is not ready for anything real if she still has to think about messing with someone else besides you.
2006-08-29 11:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by MZ.LANDA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating regardless of the gender with whom your girlfriend sleeps with. Just like sex is sex.
2006-08-29 11:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by T.G. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's cheating. It don't matter if it is with a man or another woman....if I were you I would say sure baby but I get to watch and or participate >:)
2006-08-29 11:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by jaybrdxxx69 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋