I have been thinking on doing a threesome with my man, i would like to know who has done one, what it was like during and after. give me details please, me and my man have talked about this before and really want to do it but i want to know more about it first.
2006-08-29 04:09:13 · 13 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will suggest that you and your man work out the boundries before hand and both absolutely must agree on the third person that is selected. Both of you have to fully agree on the partner.
Remember to set the boundries in terms of kissing, and such.
Each of you have to remember not to show too much attention to the 3rd person. If one of you feel neglected then the experience could end up being very harmful to the relationship.
I would also suggest checking out a swingers group. Many post rules and suggestions for new couples.
2006-08-29 04:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by Wayne 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
If you're just doing it for him, don't do it but if you're really into women yourself, go for it. Threesomes are usually only fun when there are two hot chicks that are really into eachother. This makes it exciting for him. But if you are not really into women, the threesome can be a bit boring because there will be more thinking and less flowing. It would also be better if you find the girl and she be a total stranger also. Keep in mind that it is not all it's hyped up to be...at least that's what I think.
2006-08-29 04:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jookemgood 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2M1F or 1M2F? Many men I know dream of 2F but biology is better suited the otherway. In my threesomes, it has had no negative effect of the relationships. In my case, the situations were girlfriend/boyfriend plus mutual friend meeting on a continuing basis. It was/is fun! In a 2+2 situation I once had a woman get self conscious about her looks because she percieved the other woman as much more attractive. In a group sex situation, I have had the funnest with 2M1F.
2006-08-29 04:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by OutAtDawn 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I always thought a threesome wold be great. But fantasies are often better left as fantasies. I want two men though vs 2 women. My boyfriend and I will probably never do it though, as we cannot come to an agreement.
2006-08-29 04:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by cici 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
as said above: 1st you must have security in your relationship, good boundaries, and an in depth discussion of the whys and the rules. if you both are still on go after that, have a blast. there are swingers and adult websites where you can "shop" for partners (like adultfriendfinders.) however, the thinking about it may end up being spice enough for you.
2006-08-29 04:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by hiddenhotty 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i agree u need to have a solid relationship before u do this either one of u could fall in love with the situation n become addicted to it
i know i did n it was thebest
2006-08-29 04:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. You have to be very secure in your relationship for this to work. I think 3somes are better with people you are not in relationships with. When you go mixing love with animal sex you are just asking for trouble.
2006-08-29 04:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by angielynn219 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may seem like a good idea at the time but it will ruin your relationship.
2006-08-29 04:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by bucks110 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
di it with 2 guys
2006-08-29 04:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by jack B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never done it but hey, anythings possible. Go for it
2006-08-29 04:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋