he called me and asked me if i like him and i said no, but i do like him. he said he likes me and now i dnt kno wat 2 do. if i tell him i like him and he tells my tht he stll likes me and asks me out, i dnt kno if i shld say yes or no. if i say yes, thn my friend invites me over, it wld b like im usin her 2 see him. if i say no and she invites me over, it wld feel weird cuz i tld him no and well................ i dnt kno wat 2 do. can someone help me and answer this? plzz
2006-08-29 04:03:54 · 18 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just need to make sure that your friend understands that you were not using her to get to her brother. If you have been friends with her for a while and nothing came of it with her brother she should realize it. If you like this guy, go out with him. If your friend stops talking to you then she wasn't really your friend to begin with. Good luck.
2006-08-29 04:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well y our friend should understand ..... She is still your friend .. but your dilma is clear........... you are scared it might ruin your friends relationship if you see her brother.. perfectly understandable as well, But the only way that is gonna happen is if you and her let it happen that way.. why not sit down with your friend and discuss it see how she would feel if you and her brother started seeing each other, or if she would have a problem with it... considering your friend is good, and boys will always come and go but friends they are really hard to find these days... so just have a sit down.. if you both can talk about it now with each other then any further problems in the future should come easy to talk about .... ok good luck.
2006-08-29 11:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take chances in life but not stupid ones. Tell your friend you're into her brother and you want to date him. If she's cool with it tell the boy why you said you didn't like him and that you want to go out some time. Don't alienate your friend to date this boy. She's probably going to be your friend all your life and this boy will be your stupid X in 6 months but you'll be glad you took the chance.
2006-08-29 11:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go out with him. If your friend is a good friend, she will believe you and accpet you for going out with him. You can still hang out together, but maybe you could bring her brother along. Just make sure you don't act as though she doesn't exsist.
2006-08-29 11:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kelley K. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and tell him how you feel, and the worse thing that can happen is he might tell you he don't feel the same way like you do. But any ways just tell him:) best of luck!
2006-08-29 11:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by Vilady5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, tell your friend that you have a crush on her brother, and that the 3 of you should hang out together, see how things go.
2006-08-29 11:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say YES ,go out w/ him. if u really love him tell him that. call him and say "i will go out w/ u" and thn talk 4 a wile thn say"i love you" dont b afraid 2 say it. its just 3 words. good luck. lylas
2006-08-29 11:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by 2/26/10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is too complicated - Just phone him tell him you like him ask him out and if he says no then move on and deal with it
2006-08-29 11:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well going out with a friends brother is never good a u luse your friend because she wants to hang out with you and doesnt want her brother to be with you when u do things
2006-08-29 11:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she can learn to share you with him. You cant be with her every minute. Tell her YOU DO like him and tell her to tell him so he can call you again....no games ok? He could be hurt from that.
2006-08-29 11:08:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋